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revealal to your partner

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AnonymousGuest ·
hi everyone,

I'm actually 3 months along now but haven't told my partner yet.
We've had a pretty rough time lately, so we don't live together anymore but we're still together.
I'm temporarily staying with my dad, and I'm only 19, so he doesn't know anything either.
This is actually the first time I'm saying it out loud.

After my ultrasound, it also turned out it's not just 1 but 2.
I have no idea how to tell my partner.
We both have a big desire for kids like many people, but I didn't expect it this soon.

I'm at my wit's end because I can't keep it hidden much longer.
Can someone give me advice? Or an idea on how to tell my guy.

cheers

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  1. kruimel #2

    Just be straightforward: "honey, I'm pregnant"
    The longer you wait, the harder it will get, especially since you've already had an ultrasound..
    Once you've told him and he reacts well, go together to your dad to tell him. Then show your dad that you two are adults who can handle your own business and don't run away from problems! This doesn't mean you can do everything on your own, but you'll often need to ask for help.
    You need to tell someone ASAP, girl, you can't do this alone!

    Good luck!
    xxKruimel

  2. natas32 #3

    That must have been quite a shock to find out you're pregnant with twins in your situation. But as Kruimel already said, just tell them as soon as possible so you know where you stand. Good luck!

    Love, Natas

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