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15 years old and pregnant by my ex

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anoniemGuest ·
hi, i'm 15 and pregnant by my ex.
my ex and i didn't break up on good terms.
my parents don't even know that i've been sexually active.
my ex has nude photos of me; he says he deleted them, but i'm not sure.
my ex blames me for the breakup and has blocked me everywhere, so i can't even text him or anything.
my ex is pretty aggressive, and i'm almost certain that if i tell him, he'll almost kill me.

help, what should i do!

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  1. Anonymous Guest #2

    I've talked about it with my ex before, like what would happen if I were pregnant. And he used to say that he'd actually find it pretty lukewarm (cool/nice), but that we were too young. (Makes sense)
    But since we're exes now and he's kind of spiraling out of control, I don't know how he feels about it now.
  2. Anonymous Guest #3

    Talk to your parents.

    Go to your GP, ask for help, you can't do this alone.

    Let your ex be your ex. You don't want someone like that in your life, let alone as a father.

    How far along are you?
  3. Anonymous Guest #4

    I'm 5 weeks pregnant.
  4. anoniem started this #5

    Besides being pregnant with my ex's baby, I've been dealing with an eating disorder for a long time. I was cured (anorexia), but last month it got worse again.....
  5. Maranne #6

    You can also ask for help or advice from Siriz: https://www.siriz.nl/
  6. Anonymous Guest #7

    Given your age, I’d first suggest talking to your parents or at least your GP. At 15, you can’t earn enough money to support yourself independently, let alone financially care for a child. That’s not meant to be dismissive, it’s just reality. Even if you feel very mature, legally you’re still a child, and your parents are still responsible for you, even though you can make many decisions on your own without needing their approval.

    After that, you’ll need to decide whether you want to carry the pregnancy to term and then whether you want to care for the baby yourself. Make sure you get well-informed about all the options, but ultimately make a thoughtful decision that’s right for you. Don’t let anyone pressure you into a choice—whatever you choose, it’s a decision you’ll carry for life, and you’ll have to face the consequences.
  7. anna86 #8

    Hey Meis,
    That's really tough that this happened to you!
    I think it's a good idea to have an honest conversation with your parents, maybe even bring your GP along. You're so young to deal with this on your own. Take care of yourself first, get some help, and let your boyfriend figure things out for now.

    I hope you come out of this okay.
    Best wishes, Ann86

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