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What a jerk to put you in such an impossible choice! If my guy ever asked me something like that, I'd give him the choice: either me and the baby, or him gone. What do you mean he's putting you in this position?

Congratulations on your pregnancy, and hang in there with all those hormones raging in your body! Feel free to ask your questions on Brabbels, and I can imagine my response didn't cover everything for you, but I just got mad at your guy for a moment

I can only say choose what you want most. And don't forget that both sides have pros and cons.
I also had a friend who said I shouldn't keep it and even said he would take it away from me. In the end, I chose to have a natural miscarriage. But my feelings have always been conflicting. I don't think a child deserves to grow up with the idea of being unwanted and without a good foundation. But I also would have liked to keep it because that was my biggest wish. When I heard I might not be able to have children anymore, I felt even more regret. Fortunately, I am now pregnant again (also with PCOS).