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Daydreamer
Good morning, maybe someone can help me..
My partner and I are now on our 3rd round trying to get pregnant, this would be the 4th round. My partner has been very sad each time I told him I got my period again.
I was also very upset but didn't really show it because I didn't want to give him a bad feeling.. Now we're hoping it'll work this month, but my question is, we have quite a lot of sex, not every day but sometimes every day (not because we have to, but because we can). I've read that it's best to do it every other day and sometimes even wait 2 days, is this very important?
My 2nd question is, June 1st was the first day of my last period, according to the calculator my ovulation should be around or on June 15th. Last night I had sharp stabbing pains in my stomach and in my vagina it felt like it, it didn't last very long, about 10 minutes until I lay on my side (I really couldn't lie on my back anymore). My cervical mucus is still white, slippery and not stretchy (sorry for the info). What could that pain have been? Normally I feel my ovulation well but I've never had this stabbing pain before.
I hope someone can help me a bit.
Greetings
My partner and I are now on our 3rd round trying to get pregnant, this would be the 4th round. My partner has been very sad each time I told him I got my period again.
I was also very upset but didn't really show it because I didn't want to give him a bad feeling.. Now we're hoping it'll work this month, but my question is, we have quite a lot of sex, not every day but sometimes every day (not because we have to, but because we can). I've read that it's best to do it every other day and sometimes even wait 2 days, is this very important?
My 2nd question is, June 1st was the first day of my last period, according to the calculator my ovulation should be around or on June 15th. Last night I had sharp stabbing pains in my stomach and in my vagina it felt like it, it didn't last very long, about 10 minutes until I lay on my side (I really couldn't lie on my back anymore). My cervical mucus is still white, slippery and not stretchy (sorry for the info). What could that pain have been? Normally I feel my ovulation well but I've never had this stabbing pain before.
I hope someone can help me a bit.
Greetings
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Anonymous Guest #2
The best is to do it on the day because of sperm quality.
3 months trying sounds long when you want to get pregnant, you naturally wish you were already pregnant yesterday.
Most women are pregnant within a year. For some it can indeed go very quickly.
With my first I was pregnant the first month right away and with the second I was pregnant in round 3. So don't give up, and that twinge could have been your ovulation. If you want to be sure, you can use ovulation test kits for a cycle so you know exactly when to expect your ovulation.
I also used Pre Seed with the first from the beginning and got pregnant right away, and with the second in the third round and got pregnant that round too. -
Daydreamer started this #3
Thanks for your reply, we're doing it every other day now, although it's sometimes tricky haha. I stopped the pill last May, and that year just flew by, while these last 3 months feel like an eternity... Maybe I'm just not patient enough, as you said, better today than tomorrow. I'll go ahead and buy some ovulation tests, yeah, maybe I'll become a bit wiser that way. I definitely should get my period on June 29, the day after my 23rd birthday, so curious... I'm so tense and crying for no reason every time, stupid right? Pre-seed is a lubricant, right? I'll add it to the cart and order it too. Cheers -
Chelsea #4
For us, it took until the 6th round to get pregnant. But we don't have sex that often, and especially the "mandatory" sex was quite tough for my boyfriend. Good luck! -
Daydreamer started this #5
It's not mandatory for us either, it just happens haha
Thanks for your reply!
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