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  1. Bunny #81

    Hi Lala... That's weird that you weren't allowed to hear the heartbeat at 12 weeks... They can usually hear it by 8 weeks... And at 12 weeks, it's standard as far as I know...

  2. Lala120 started this #82

    Hi Bunny,

    Maybe it's different at every midwife's practice?
    I don't know either...
    Then 6 weeks is still quite early, I think.
    But I'm definitely hoping for Brabbel89 that there's a nice, beating heart!
    It's exciting, isn't it.

  3. Bunny #83

    Yeah, I don't know about six weeks either. I think that's only in Belgium. In the Netherlands, they start at eight weeks...

  4. brabbel89 #84

    Hi! I'm 5 weeks today. Next Wednesday I can go back to the midwife again. She told me that I'll be able to hear the heartbeat then, so it's definitely possible, right??

  5. Bunny #85

    Hi Lala and Brabbel,

    I had my first ultrasound last night, but I wasn't allowed to hear the heartbeat, only see it. I don't know why that was. I didn't ask either. For some reason, now that I'm pregnant, I'm being super pragmatic. I didn't cry, I wasn't beaming with joy either; I'm just very calm and composed about it. I don't think the realization has really hit me yet, especially since you don't really see a baby on such an ultrasound, but rather a little spot where you see a movement that is the heartbeat.

  6. Lala120 started this #86

    Hi Bunny,

    Congratulations on the good ultrasound!
    I was completely sober until my 10th week.
    I didn't have any problems with it.
    I've been uncontrollable for the past 3 weeks.
    I'm terribly emotional and moody.
    I've seen a suspicious and insecure side of myself that I've never had before!

    Best wishes

  7. Bunny #87

    Hi Lala, that's really tough! Suspicious and moody in every way? I've been dealing with cold water phobia in my relationship. Now we're getting married and having a baby... Forever connected. We've had some pretty intense fights during the 2.5 years we've been together, and we still do sometimes. But we're also happy together, though now I sometimes feel anxious because everything has been moving at a breakneck pace since February.

  8. Bunny #88

    I meant: in what respect? Not in every respect.

  9. Lala120 started this #89

    Hi Bunny

    My boyfriend and I just passed our one-year anniversary in May, so we’re only really getting to know each other now.
    My boyfriend has been home for 6 months, so we’re together a lot.
    I’m suspicious and sometimes think he’s talking to other women.
    When I ask for his phone, he gives it to me and lets me check everything.
    Then I get so sad because I really hate that I apparently don’t trust him.
    And his mood swings are crazy—he’s super cheerful one day and then feels absolutely terrible the next day over everything you can imagine.

    Love

  10. M&B #90

    Hi everyone,
    so nice to see all those pregnancies, congratulations!
    We're also having fun renovating now, it's getting quite exciting hihi,
    I'll keep you posted
    Greetings M&B

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