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  1. Jongmama #21

    If you haven't had your period yet, you can't know. You need to have your period every month to be pregnant. Impossible.

  2. kruimel #22

    @Jongemama that's nonsense..
    The chance is extremely small but if you had sex in your very first cycle you can definitely get pregnant without ever having had a period.
    You never know when that first cycle is until you get your period.. I'm saying, the chance is extremely small but it is there.

  3. Jongmama #23

    Never knew that.

  4. anoniempje #24

    I really have no one. I don't have a mom, no girl from the neighborhood, and everyone knows I wanted to kill myself. Now they all think I'm pathetic and stuff. I need to get help, but I can't go to another village because I'm on crutches and can't cycle.

  5. Jongmama #25

    Sorry to say this, but I'm starting to not really believe this story.

    And if it's true, strength and you really need to talk to someone you trust.

  6. Anonymous Guest #26

    I'm starting to think this story isn't entirely true either...

  7. anoniempje #27

    Hz that also but I can't get any help from you guys, so thank you. I thought I could talk about it here and that you'd help me, but no.

  8. Jongmama #28

    Sorry, but it all sounds so unbelievable. I'm not saying it's not true, but I don't believe it as much anymore, given the writing style and stuff. And don't get me wrong, I'm not a great typist either Dutch. But this doesn't sound real anymore, which is why I don't believe it.

    And as I said, it's like that. You either have to get a GP appointment or a pregnancy test. If you get two lines, you're pregnant, and if you get one, you're not.

  9. Bertha Guest #29

    Hey anon, it's so tough that you're feeling so insecure. I believe you and really want to help you, and I take your call for help seriously, but I'm coming from the other side of the country.
    Do you have a trusted person at school? Or a school doctor or a teacher, lecturer or mentor that you trust? Mentors and trusted persons are there for you and deal with a lot more. I'm a teacher myself and I would do my best to help you further.
    You can also feel nauseous from tension and stress and just have issues with your intestines. You don't have to be pregnant, but it could be. Your period won't come until after an egg. The only way to be sure if you're pregnant is by taking a test a few times. The first one no earlier than 2 weeks after sex.
    If you're being forced into this, you really need to report it at school or to the police! And talk to a professional about it.

  10. anoniem #30

    You can talk about it here too, but if there are people who say you should go to the doctor or talk to someone, don't do that.....while most of us here, I think, would actually find that the best. Because if you're really pregnant and have so many problems that you're thinking of suicide, we can certainly listen to your story, but we can't really help you further from here either.
    So that's also my advice: go to your doctor or find another adult to talk to.
    Or contact an organization that helps girls like you. If you're sure you're pregnant (test at home first), these are organizations that help girls like you (and if you google, you'll surely find more):
    www.siriz.nl
    fiom.nl

    Even if you turn out not to be pregnant, there are organizations that can help you. Just google telephone helplines and you'll get quite far.

    Good luck and stay strong.

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