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anoniempjeGuest ·
Hi, I'm a 12-year-old girl and I think I might be pregnant, but I'm not sure. I also haven't had my period yet. Can you get pregnant if you haven't had your period yet?

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  1. ik wil geen lid meer zijn #2

    WAT NIET can't, but I think if you haven't had your period yet, you can't be pregnant either. Maybe it's wise to talk to your mom about this.

  2. anoniempje #3

    If you could help me, please do.
    Love,

  3. X Guest #4

    If you haven't had your period yet, you can't be pregnant.
    Why do you think you're pregnant?
    Definitely talk to your mom!

  4. anoniempje #5

    Because I have stomach pain, got a bigger belly, and feel nauseous.

  5. Onbekend Guest #6

    Have you had sex yet?

  6. anoniempje #7

    Yeah, I’d say it like this: I’m completely defeated and forced.

  7. Esra♡♥ #8

    Such a little girl.. that's no small thing. You can definitely be pregnant even if you haven't had your period yet because you never know when your first period is supposed to be. And if you were forced into it, that's a very serious matter and you should definitely go to the police and also to your parents. I'd really like to help you.. where are you from??

  8. anoniempje #9

    Brabant

  9. Esra♡♥ #10

    Me too. Breda. You??

  10. anoniempje #11

    Helmond Deurne

  11. Esra♡♥ #12

    Okay, how can I help you? Do you still have stomach ache and stuff?

  12. md Guest #13

    Hi anon,
    It's best to go to your GP. They can't just go to your parents, but they can help you further. Maybe you can confide in a friend and go to the GP together? Is there an adult nearby you feel comfortable telling?

  13. anoniempje #14

    Nothing anymore, I can't take it anymore, everything is not okay. At school they are being jerks, they are bullying me. I can't go anywhere, at home I don't feel comfortable in my own skin either. I won't hurt anyone when I'm gone, no one. And then there's also a baby coming, sorry, I just can't handle it anymore.

  14. md Guest #15

    Your GP is the best. You can also call the child helpline or chat with them, or maybe talk to your mentor at school.

  15. ano Guest #16

    Dear girl,

    That all sounds really tough, huh When I was as old as you are, I often felt awful too.. At that age, it's completely normal to feel so insecure, especially with everything you're going through. It really helps to confide in someone, so you can talk it through together and figure out what the smartest thing to do is. Having another baby right now sounds like a bit too much, so if you're pregnant (which I can't imagine), it's good to be there in time.

    Keep your chin up! x

  16. anoniempje #17

    I told that to my best friend, and now the whole school knows.

  17. anoniempje #18

    So I trust no one

  18. * #19

    @anoniempje,

    How are you doing now? Have you taken a pregnancy test yet?

  19. anoniempje #20

    No, I don't dare to get them. I'm 12; they watch me coming.

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