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Just lost my egg for a moment.

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  1. Kim started this #41

    You guys are really so sweet!
    And @lief I'll be cheering for you that good news will come your way too.
    For now, besides some vague back pain and really extremely sore breasts, I don't have many complaints or anything. I did have a bit of a headache this morning, but I also have chronic neck pain, so that could be the cause.
    My belly is a bit achy, but to call it real belly pain...
    Anyway, my husband has a good feeling this time. Well, I'm still looking for an excuse for every complaint. It's just out of habit, I'm scared.
    I'm so glad you guys chatted for a bit, I could let off some steam.

  2. Noor #42

    The weather certainly doesn't help with objectively assessing symptoms and stuff either. Nothing feels right now like it should.

  3. Kim started this #43

    That's right, Noor, but just from the heat you get so miserable and sluggish.

  4. Kim started this #44

    Oh no, I just had some clear brown discharge, so I’m afraid my period is coming
    The only vague thing left is that my back and breasts really hurt, but I have absolutely no stomach pain....
    I think we’re going on to the next round

  5. Susanna #45

    I totally didn't see that coming because your symptoms sounded really hopeful. Can the hospital still help you in any way?

  6. Kim started this #46

    It’s still just that one wipe... and I don’t want to go to the hospital, we’re both in agreement on that. It’s because of my past.

  7. Susanna #47

    I certainly don't want to give you false hope, but maybe implantation?

  8. Kim started this #48

    I hope so after 3 years, I'll keep you updated.

  9. Lief #49

    Kim (guest), did you also take a test? I hope your period stays away for you. I always have sore breasts, but on the day of my period... even the day before, they become softer and less swollen. Usually, I then think, oh... probably didn't work out. With you, your breasts are still hurting, so it could go either way. I'm rooting for you.

  10. Kim started this #50

    Hi sweetheart,
    My breasts have been hurting for days. Normally they're a bit sensitive during my period, but it's never been this painful before. I don't remember it being like this during my pregnancy either. Now it's like sharp stabs, hard to explain.
    If nothing happens tomorrow, I guess I'll just go get a test.
    I'm just so scared.

  11. Lief #51

    Kim (guest), I get that, I feel that too often. Still, I always prefer to test early. I buy the tests at Action, the early ones, and they're not expensive. If it stays white, I can expect my period eventually. I've noticed that waiting causes me more stress. I understand that you don't know what to do right now. You want it so much, but at the same time, you're afraid the test will be negative. But for the same reason, you're pregnant. That uncertainty eats away at you, I think.

  12. Susanna #52

    For me, the disappointment is smaller if I get my period after a negative test, because I was already expecting it.

  13. Kim started this #53

    I haven't gotten my period yet. Normally, after a brown discharge, my period starts within a few hours. If nothing happens today, I'll go get a test.
    It's starting to feel quite suspenseful now.
    My temperature was a bit lower this morning again.

  14. Susanna #54

    You're keeping it exciting, I hope it works out for you!

  15. Kim started this #55

    Just got my period after all

  16. Lief #56

    Oh Kim, that's so sad... I had hoped so much for you.

  17. Kim started this #57

    We've talked about it, and we're going to call the doctor anyway.
    It's pretty strange that all these symptoms come, but no pregnancy shows up. Physically, there's nothing abnormal with either of us either.
    I'm so disappointed right now, ugh..

  18. Susanna #58

    H how can that be after all your hopeful symptoms? It's really good that you're going to see the doctor anyway!

  19. Kim started this #59

    I think my body has been playing tricks on me, haha. I’ve been in touch with the GP and tested just to be sure, but obviously, it’s negative.
    I need to call back tomorrow afternoon; they’re going to discuss what options are possible for us.

    @ dear, is there anything stirring on your end yet? You were supposed to have yours this weekend, right?

  20. Lief #60

    Kim, good that you're going to the GP. There are many ways to Rome, and often a GP can reassure you or refer you. I think it's really tough for you. I did a test today, also white. I turned 40 today and I'm starting to feel it. I don't want to pay attention to those symptoms anymore. We've been trying for two years now and had a miscarriage after 7 weeks. We don't want to keep trying for years, you know. Bahw, it's sometimes a bit much.

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