Getting pregnant

Merel 2 months ago #41

Exciting, Jacky! When is your due date and what are you feeling?

Esje started this 2 months ago #42

Yesss Merel, my sweetie, I'm back again, grumpy! Did you read my messages about the bleeding again? I don't get it at all!!!

Welcome JWx and Jackie! Looks like we're all busy!!! Hope you'll have a nice result soon too. Your body can do some weird things sometimes! My cycle has always been 36 days. Now, a week and a half after my period, bleeding again (only when wiping, bright red). Last week I had some stabs under my belly. Ovulation tests are always negative (tested on Wednesday). I don't get it...

Angelajj 2 months ago #43

Hey ladies!
How are you doing?

Esje, I've had that too, but it was from rough sex. Then he hit your cervix too hard. I can't think of anything else. For an implantation bleed, it's too early, I think.. How's it going now?

I don't understand a thing my body is doing anymore xD
My cervix is still high and I still feel an opening.. my discharge is now just watery and no longer sticky..
I also keep getting sharp pains in my lower belly, a lot of headaches, and I'm grumpy... but that's probably just the withdrawal from the pill...
I'm now on day 21 of my cycle and I don't know how long my cycle is, because I stopped the pill after 10 years.

Merel 2 months ago #44

Esje, that's really crazy! Could you have had an egg that was way too early? That's awful, how's your discharge now?

Esje started this 2 months ago #45

Hey cuties, I really think I hit something haha so I'm not going to test anymore haha. Egg seems too early to me. Ovulation test was just negative. Discharge is a bit creamy, I find it smells a bit. Ovulation is according to my calculation next week. Hihi from now on I feel a bit reassured. Tonight I'll just do some chores again, and you ladies?

Angela, yes that could very well be... you don't know your cycle yet right? When did you stop the pill? I start in August, pffff I'm getting impatient while it's still 'only' 3 months... I irritate myself, want to let it go but can't. Especially because my cycle is now halfway through and I secretly get hope again...
Do you know that? I'm super happy for Bivi that it's a hit!!! Now us too hahaha

Angelajj 2 months ago #46

I’d totally just go for it

I stopped the pill on October 6th, so it’s been less than a month xD My body is just all messed up..
But I’m also impatient xD
So I totally get what you mean

Yeah, I’m really happy for her!!!
Hope it happens for us soon too!!!!!

---- 2 months ago #47

Esje: hey sweetheart, I’d really keep a close eye on your discharge! I’m pretty sure that’s what made us conceive right away. As soon as your discharge changes from white and creamy to clear, egg-white-like and very stretchy, thennnnn you should definitely have intercourse that day!!! Oh, I really hope it works out for you now, I wish it so much for you, and the other ladies too!

---- 2 months ago #48

Angelajj, yes girl, I totally get you haha! We want it so much and as soon as possible, but it's just hard to estimate, especially when you've only just stopped the pill. But what I already told Esje, I'd keep a close eye on your discharge—it really worked for me! If you have any questions, please ask because I really want to help you guys hihi

Merel 2 months ago #49

We’re gonna have sex later too, so excited!!!

My discharge is watery and sometimes a bit creamy but not sticky yet. No idea if I’ll get an egg soon. But sex can’t hurt!

Esje, you too, have lots of fun, sweetheart! And why does it smell different? Maybe still a bit of the iron from yesterday’s blood?

---- 2 months ago #50

As soon as it turns completely white and creamy, your fertile period begins! As soon as it becomes stretchy and raw-white, that's your peak! So exciting, girls

I did a test today, not an early test but the regular one from Action, and it's very clear

I still can't believe it, haha

Angelajj 2 months ago #51

Totally Bibi, it's really tough when you've just stopped... the symptoms after stopping the pill are the same as being pregnant...
With every little kick in my belly I think.. could it be?
I've gone ahead and bought ovulation tests for the next cycle because I really don't expect it to happen so quickly for me...

And how's Merel doing with you? Your discharge is the same as mine is now xD
Having sex can't hurt anyway xD

I think it's really super for you Bibi!! Really super happy for you!!

Esje started this 2 months ago #52

Ahhh thanks dear Bibi. I'll definitely do that too. So from whitish-cream-like to raw-white egg-white-like? Right now it's the first one, and soon my fertile days will be coming up, so I should see it change. I find it sooo exciting. It's super sweet of you to say you hope it works out for you too soon. How cool would it be to be pregnant together and share experiences!!!

Ahhh and it's so nice that I can ask you everything. You ladies can ask me too, no question is too much!!!

And wow darling, that's really such a beautiful positive test!!! I'm so so so happy for you! Now go enjoy that little bean growing inside you!!!

Yes Angela, your body can sometimes play tricks on you!!! I noticed that in the first 2 months after stopping too. Luckily I don't have that anymore now. So if it's like that again, I hope it's because of a pregnancy!

Like Bibi says: keep an eye on your discharge! If she's had such good luck, I'll do that too.

Ladies, I don't dare to feel my cervix anymore. Last time I accidentally touched it with my nail (I have acrylic nails) and I don't want to take that risk anymore. Hihi, so I'll check my discharge instead, hahaha, it's going to be a fun thing.

Merel, it could be that it smells because I bled. But that's been over for more than 2 days now and I still smell a little bit. I notice it especially in the evenings. Hihi, so I'll wash my pussy again so it's clean and fresh for my boyfriend.

Angelajj 2 months ago #53

Quite the shock! It's absolutely disgusting that it happened, I'm glad it's over.
I also got acrylic nails done last week, so I can't feel my bum anymore either xD True, but keep an eye on the discharge!
If my cycle is normal, I expect to get my period somewhere next week..
I've also noticed a bit of a smell before, but I think it's just related to hormones and sweat. I usually get that when I'm about to get my period or if I've had a busy day. Then I always take an extra shower xD

I've also been getting sharp pains in my right side now.. I've never had that before.. weird body.. it also feels like I keep tensing my abdominal muscles. Does anyone else experience this?

---- 2 months ago #54

Esje: hey mop! Yeah, then it's better to just keep an eye on your discharge, that's enough, so keep a close watch until it changes to raw-white and stretchy, hehe. I'm so excited for you and of course for the rest too!
I'm still waiting every day with bated breath to see if everything goes well, today I called my midwife because my test was just as dark today as it was yesterday, but she said it doesn't matter and that I shouldn't test anymore because then I'm just driving myself crazy haha, so from now on I'm not going to test anymore! Now indeed enjoying my little one, maybe something funny but when I stroke my belly it feels so weird, like it tickles from the inside, a very strange feeling haha

Muis 2 months ago #55

I'd also like to share my story.
My partner and I have been trying to get pregnant since May, but unfortunately, it hasn't worked out yet.
I have PCOS.
I found out last November and had to lose weight first.
I've lost 12 kilos and started taking Clomid in May.
Clomid wasn't very nice though; it made me feel completely crazy and down.
Now I've had my first month with Gonal F.
I ovulated on day 12 on October 19th, so according to the gynecologist, I could test 14 days later. Normally, I always have a 30-day cycle, but this time it was 26 days.
Normally, I also have light bleeding on day 26 of the cycle and then get my period properly after 4 days.
Now, there's absolutely nothing yet.
According to the gynecologist's calculation, I should be on my period now, but I don't feel it coming at all.
It could still take 30 days for me to get my period.
I've taken 2 tests, both of which were negative.
I'm afraid it didn't work out again.

Merel 2 months ago #56

So sad, mouse, and welcome!

Esje, how's the discharge going? We're still collecting obsbest seeds here, just in case we get an egg!

Angel, what are you feeling now?

Angelajj 2 months ago #57

Hey Merel!

I just got my period, so I feel like crap xD
Looks like I have a cycle of 25 days...

How are you doing?

Merel 2 months ago #58

Ahhh, that sucks, Angel! But in two weeks, you'll be in Nieuwer-Amstel and hopefully have a super positive test!

Angelajj 2 months ago #59

Hope so too!!

Now just gonna chill on the couch with a pillow xD

Esje started this 2 months ago #60

Hey sweeties
It's me again!! Sorry, been a bit quiet but now I'm back!
Just read your messages
Ahhh Angela, that sucks that you got your period. But what's pretty positive is that it came back so quickly. Your body seems to recover quite fast. And having a short cycle is nice, you can try more often. I understand it's a bit tough though because you secretly still have hope. Hugs to you!!!

Welcome mouse, nice to have you here. Tough situation. Do you know more by now? Also, really impressive that you've lost so much weight! Hope you get more clarity soon!

Dear Bibi; missed you!!! How are you doing now? Still enjoying every moment? And don't stress too much, darling, enjoy the fact that you'll always be just the two of you in the coming months!!!!
Merel and Bibi, darlings, here it's super exciting: my ovulation tests have been positive for 2 days now, discharge is becoming more like egg white and increasing. Also more desire for sex so we're going for it every day now!!!

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