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Hey Fay,
If this is your first baby, I completely understand your fear. First of all, I'd suggest discussing your fears with your OB-GYN or midwife. If you're planning to induce labor and the baby is already quite big, I'd do that in your place, especially since you should know that babies often gain weight in the last few days/weeks, making them even heavier. This of course depends entirely on you and your doctor. Also, try to relax and keep in mind that most births go well, even with a heavier baby. I'm currently pregnant with my 5th child, with birth weights of: 3.9kg, 3480g, 4070g, 3500g, and I was induced for my 2nd and 4th because the birth weight was already so high, both at 38.5 weeks. I really hope you can let go of your fears and wish you an easy delivery. You can do it, girl! Greetings, Brigitte

hey fay, that's intense, girl..
I had post-traumatic stress syndrome after my second birth.
I've discussed this thoroughly with the midwife and the OB-GYN, and I'm getting early support.
The fact that you're noticing this now, I'd really call your OB-GYN about it tomorrow.
You already know how to relax during labor, and your daughter was born safely.
Try to reflect on this.. write things down on paper, just like you probably had to do in your treatment for anxiety.
What's the worst thing about letting go of control during labor... you probably still remember.

Secondly, the OB-GYN leaves the control to you; you decide whether you want to be induced.
See, another point where you have control, girl.
Try to stay positive! You can do this because you've already succeeded before!

Girl, shoulders back and chest forward, because if you're strong enough to fight through an anxiety disorder, you can do this too!

Good luck, big hug

I can totally relate. I sometimes get really anxious just thinking about getting those fears back. I think that's the biggest issue for me. But you're strong! And yes, since it's your second baby, you'll likely already have 1 or 2 cm dilation naturally. Nothing to worry about—that's totally normal for the number of weeks you're pregnant. Induction isn't that bad, by the way. Both of mine were induced via IV drip. It's nice that you have a date to look forward to. Good luck, girl!

Oh Fay, that's so hard to read! I completely understand how you feel.. it's and remains your choice whether or not to have your labor induced. Maybe the midwife can do a membrane sweep first to see if that helps kick things into gear. After all, you already have 2 cm dilation.

The fact that you know anxiety might take over probably makes that less likely to happen. Make sure to communicate this clearly to the person guiding and supporting you. Ask them how they can help you stay calm and try to find that calmness yourself. You know better than anyone what works best for you..

I had my labor induced during my first pregnancy and was caught off guard. I actually found it nice because I knew when I was going to give birth. Strange but true. I find it more exciting now because I don't know when labor will start.

You've got this!!

Glad you're keeping us updated, Fay!
It'll be okay!
And your openness is really great—I'm also clearing the air in my own way.
Enjoy yourself a bit more.

Enjoy your last days of being pregnant!! Good luck with the delivery, it's going to be all good!

Congratulations Fay! So glad it went well for you! Enjoy it now!

That's great! Congratulations!

So nice to hear that everything went well and smoothly, now enjoy...
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