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bloempje12
Hi everyone!

I tested positive 2 weeks ago, yay! Unfortunately, that pink cloud was shattered last week. I suddenly got some brown spotting, and the GP said that happens quite often.

On Tuesday, it turned bright red without any clots, and last night I had to go to the OB-GYN. He searched for a while and then said, "I see that something must have been there because there was a black ring visible and thickened lining." I asked if he was sure it was a miscarriage, and he confirmed it was.

What I'm struggling with now is that I have very painful and tender breasts and I'm really tired, so the symptoms are still there. I have to go back on Tuesday to see if everything has passed. The bleeding has already stopped since last night. It feels a bit strange for a miscarriage not to have passed the lining yet.

I have the feeling that he did the ultrasound too early, because apparently my uterus was also tilted quite far back.

Has anyone else experienced something like this?

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  1. Linda #2

    No, never experienced that. I did have a miscarriage once, but it was quite early on and the embryo was so small that I had little pain and only lost blood for a few days. Probably the embryo had already stopped growing before the miscarriage even started. By the time I could see the GP, my uterus was already empty.

    It happens so often, in so many different ways, and it doesn't necessarily mean anything for a future pregnancy. Still, it's very sad! Strength!

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