Introductions.

@ Madelene,

I just get spontaneous chills when I read your message.
It's really nice that it works out for you, your man, and you.
Spontaneous and having just one person make the choice about when to have a baby, I absolutely find that going against someone's back but well, I've made my point and everyone has their own life, luckily!

It's going to work out fine if I hear it like this.
It says enough that he says if it comes, it comes.
He is open to children.
Only he would rather it happens spontaneously than all that precisely planned stuff.
That's how my man is too, the majority of men.
It's men's own.
As I already mentioned earlier, it's funny, only this third child we're aiming for has been talked about together. Our little girls came without consulting each other.
Sometimes you have to take the lead as a woman.
If I had waited until my man said when we could start having children, I would still be childless now
Have a nice evening.
Greetings, Madelene

Anonymous, there are still plenty of things I could say back to you about your comments, but I’m not going to waste my time on this nonsense. I’d rather spend my time on more important things. And you’re right—everyone has their own life.