1st trimester
What should I do?
lindseyGuest ·
Hi ladies, I need your advice.
I'm only 4 weeks pregnant. It wasn't supposed to happen, but it did. I was really shocked, but I couldn't get myself to go through with an abortion. My head just wouldn't allow it. Until my boyfriend immediately told me I had to get rid of it. Something I absolutely don't want, but I feel pressured because he doesn't want a child.
I believe a child needs both a father and a mother. Getting rid of it is something I really don't want, and I know I'll regret it. I just can't even think about it.
I don't know what to do. Am I selfish if I want to keep my baby?
I'm only 4 weeks pregnant. It wasn't supposed to happen, but it did. I was really shocked, but I couldn't get myself to go through with an abortion. My head just wouldn't allow it. Until my boyfriend immediately told me I had to get rid of it. Something I absolutely don't want, but I feel pressured because he doesn't want a child.
I believe a child needs both a father and a mother. Getting rid of it is something I really don't want, and I know I'll regret it. I just can't even think about it.
I don't know what to do. Am I selfish if I want to keep my baby?
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Johanna Guest #2
Hi Lindsey,
If you want to keep your baby, then you should. Of course you're not selfish. Quite the opposite. Your boyfriend is the one acting selfishly, but you're not because you don't want to have an abortion.
Your baby needs people who love it. If you can do it, that's enough. No one can or should force you to get an abortion. It's your body, your choice, and your baby!
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