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samantha20 started this 2 months ago #61

Hi Jaimy,

Yeah, I get it, so I think it's best to test on Friday. Of course, you'd be super happy but also nervous, and it'd give you peace of mind if the OB says everything's fine. And that you're past the 12-week mark.

But yeah, those are worries for later. How long is your cycle now? Is your boyfriend nervous too, haha?

Love, x

JaimyLiebrecht 2 months ago #62

Hey girl,

My cycle is now 33 days. Yeah, but that one stays soberly open, saying wait and see hehe.
I'm already on cloud nine haha.

Greetings

X

samantha20 started this 2 months ago #63

Hi Jaimy.
Oh, that's not so long, I have no idea how long mine will take haha.
Haha, my boyfriend would react like that too, very down-to-earth haha and calm.

I'd also be floating on cloud nine hahaha.

Greetings x

JaimyLiebrecht 2 months ago #64

Hi Samantha,

I'm really disappointed

. My period came today.

. I was so convinced I was pregnant

. But oh well.

Good luck, girl.

Best,

x

samantha20 started this 2 months ago #65

Hi Jaimy,

Oh, that really sucks. I thought it was going to be okay. I really hope you get your wish—you've been at this for a while, but there's nothing you can do about it.

I understand you're really disappointed.

Hopefully, you'll have better luck next round!

Best, x

JaimyLiebrecht 2 months ago #66

Hi Samantha,

Yeah, that's really crap, isn't it? I'm so frustrated! And stomach ache. I really had the feeling, but unfortunately, nothing could be done about it. Now hoping we can try again soon and that I get pregnant quickly. I don't want to have to try for another 7 months, ugh!

How are you doing?
I'm rooting for you!

Best,

X

samantha20 started this 2 months ago #67

Hi Jaimy,

Yeah, I can totally understand how you're feeling. Yeah, it really sucks waiting all the time. I hope you don't have to do any more work for 7 months. I had my last work day today, and after that, it's just waiting for me too. I have a feeling it didn't work out. I also have no idea how long it might take, well, no one does.

I hope you can distract yourself a bit today because I get that you're feeling awful. I think my hormones are all over the place today too. I don't feel good at all, but I don't really know why, and I could cry at any moment, but I don't know why. There's nothing wrong. I always get this way when my period is coming. I get this low, and I don't know why, but half an hour later, I'm super cheerful again. I think it's because of my hormones, haha. Really annoying.

Greetings, x

JaimyLiebrecht 2 months ago #68

Hi Samantha,

Yeah, that’s it, isn’t it? That constant uncertainty and waiting... And then you start doubting, and I’d already have hope—I know I shouldn’t hope, but when you want something this badly, you do it automatically, right? I really hope you’ll bring some good news soon, Sienne! I wish it for you from the bottom of my heart!!

That’s also the thing, right? No one knows when we’ll get pregnant... It’s so frustrating! But well, there’s nothing we can change... unfortunately.

My boyfriend said next time will be better... I told him I was having a low moment, and he said, “Cheer up, it’ll work out.”

Oh, that’s also frustrating when your hormones go haywire, right? Good grief...

I’m glad I can open up to you.

Love,

x

samantha20 started this 2 months ago #69

Hi Jaimy,
Yeah, I get it. You automatically hope it’ll happen on its own; you can’t help it.

Yeah, I hope so too. They say waiting will be rewarded, so yeah, for both of us, but we just have to wait.

And yeah, you’re right, it’ll all work out. You know you’re healthy and can have a baby; sometimes you just have to wait a bit longer. But as I said, waiting gets rewarded, and before you know it, you’ll be pregnant too!

Yeah, it’s really annoying that my hormones are acting up, but yeah, they say that’s part of it too.
I’m curious—it turns out I’m now in the phase where my body is preparing for pregnancy, and I’ll soon experience symptoms that look like early pregnancy symptoms. So yeah, it’s another moment of doubt: am I just preparing, or am I actually pregnant? Oh well, we’ll just have to wait and see, haha.

Yeah, but I also think it’s super nice chatting with you.
Greetings, x

JaimyLiebrecht 2 months ago #70

Hi Samantha,

Yeah, let's hope that waiting pays off, haha. Yeah, it's just that I know I can get pregnant (if I was unlucky there), but I know it works. So I just have to turn my brain off and go for it 100% again after my MS.

I get it, the hormones, I had that too and then being sick, having to throw up, and always having to pee, so I thought, yeah, I'm pregnant.. But either I imagined it or yeah, too much built up, huh.

I don't know.

Greetings

x

samantha20 started this 2 months ago #71

Hi Jaimy,

Yeah, let's just wait and see. Sometimes it works out best when you're not expecting it.

Yes, you really have to give it 100%.

Yeah, it's really annoying, but I know we'll get pregnant too.

How's work going for you now?
I'm helping my mom out with cleaning, she finds it nice and cozy haha.

Greetings x

JaimyLiebrecht 2 months ago #72

Hi Samantha,

Yeah, they say it comes quicker when you least expect it, right?
We really have to go for it 100% because we really want it! Yep, that's where we're going to be a super mom!

Work is good, but busy because I'm off on Thursday and Friday, so we have to work faster and there's a lot of work, wow! I'm exhausted, you know! Nothing else to do.

Ah, all fun and games. Make it nice for your grandma.

Best,

x

samantha20 started this 2 months ago #73

Hi Jaimy.

Yesss, that's the right answer—we're going to be super mamas.

And of course, we're going for it 100%.

Oh yes, I'm off on Thursday and Friday too. So you'll have to keep working hard for now, but it's nice to have some distraction.

Yeah, I'll make it look nice again at my grandma's; she likes it.

I'm going to do some DIY tonight, then we'll have to be patient and wait and see.

Are you doing anything fun on your days off? I haven't got a clue what I could do yet, hahaha.

Love, x

JaimyLiebrecht 2 months ago #74

Hi Samantha,

When I got home, I had a little dip, wow. I was really mentally drained, started crying, and told my partner I didn't feel like doing it anymore. He said, "Come on, sweetheart, chin up." I said, "Yeah, I know, but I'm so tired of the disappointment..." But now I'm thinking, yeah... I really do want a baby, and I know I'll just keep going, but sometimes I wonder why...

When is your period due?

I'm going to the city with my parents tomorrow evening.

Love,

x

samantha20 started this 2 months ago #75

Hi Jaimy,

Oh girl, it really sucks for you. You're strong, I know it's tough, but you're strong. Your boyfriend is right, everything will be okay.

I just finished painting hahaha, now it's a wait and see.

My due date is May 23rd, so I have to wait a bit. I don't even want to think about it.

Love, x

JaimyLiebrecht 2 months ago #76

Hi Samantha,

Everything will be fine with me! Just go for it, there's nothing more we can do! Now it's time for you to cross your fingers, girl.

Best wishes

X

samantha20 started this 2 months ago #77

Hi Jaimy,

It'll definitely work out, I know that. And yeah, you can't just do it like a chore—if we could, we would've done it ages ago.

Yeah, now I'm just crossing my fingers. I try not to dwell on it too much or think about it too much. But it's hard, and when I'm not actively thinking about it, something always comes up that makes me start thinking about it again. Luckily, the weather has been nice these past few days, which helps with doing fun stuff in the sun, haha.

X

JaimyLiebrecht 2 months ago #78

Hi Samantha,

We'll make the best of it, right, girl.
And I'd say do it well and don't think too much about it, but I understand that's hard, you know. I know that feeling. But it'll work out.

What are you doing today?

Greetings

Xx

samantha20 started this 2 months ago #79

Hi Jaimy,
Yeah, everything will be fine haha.

I’m already off today, so I’ve got the weekend early haha. I’m going to see my pregnant friend today hahaha.

Have a nice workday and enjoy your evening in the city.

Love x

JaimyLiebrecht 2 months ago #80

Hi Samantha,

How are you doing?
My extended weekend is starting too.

And I've been working hard these past weeks, haha

.

Greetings

xx

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