Forum Baby wish

At the beginning of our adventure

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  1. Bs1987 started this #41

    We'll only test at 12 weeks.

    That's when it's necessary, according to the calculators.

    And no, I'm not a delicate soul, but I think I've been through more in my life than 75% of people here.

    And I'll keep my opinion to myself.

  2. Bs1987 started this #42

    Honestly, I'm mainly replying because I'm so curious how it'll turn out!!

    But Bs, I don't read any man-unfriendly things and no weird language is being spoken to you either.

    Hopefully it'll be a hit on the first try for you guys, that would be fantastic. I once had such clear symptoms 8 days after ovulation, and I was already testing positive then. Anything can happen. But the more you focus on it, the more you feel and become aware of the crazy things your body is doing, regardless of whether you turn out to be pregnant or not.

    I hope it's a hit for you guys. I know there's a zi topic somewhere here too. It's quite quiet, but maybe you'll get some tips there as well.

    But for now, it's just waiting. Ultimately, a test gives the answer. When are you allowed to test?

    Anyway, I find it quite condescending when people say men have fragile little hearts etc.


    June 12th we can test
    skybles

    I replied to and read through the zi topic.
    I try to ask as few nasr symptoms as possible to avoid triggering anything in my fiancé. But there are physical changes that I notice in her. I notice them in her too.

  3. stff48 #43

    Then it starts to abbreviate to test But I think you're a bit off about the fact that you've experienced more than 75% of the people who have responded so far because most of us have already seen a lot of black snow, unfortunately No one here judges anyone harshly

  4. Anonymous Guest #44

    Those are quite strong statements. 75% more than most people here have experienced.

    I also think that most people here have gone through more, in one way or another, than what the light can handle.

    Why do you feel so attacked? You ask for experiences, and you get them. You get the explanation. But it doesn't quite fit into your picture?

    Doesn't your fiancé have a regular cycle? Because you're using a calculator.

  5. Bs1987 started this #45

    Abuse by ex. Left with debts, kept away from family. Depression, suicide.........

  6. Bs1987 started this #46

    Usually between 30 and 32 days

  7. Bs1987 started this #47

    No, most of the comments are truths according to those people, and if he reads something contradictory on other forums, it's not true because those people have never had to deal with it or experienced it, so it probably doesn't add up. For my work, I often have to pick out and investigate things, so I benefit from gathering information from multiple sources and making a comparison/evaluation.

  8. Bs1987 started this #48

    Well, it's about my fiancé, not about me.

  9. stff48 #49

    It's all very hard, I also don't have good experiences from my ex-boyfriend, but that's past tense. It shouldn't remain an issue now, of course... because I think you've also been together for quite a long time?
    You can only make it better yourself, I've learned that... I've come out of it much stronger as a person... Every house has its cross, and that's really true.

  10. Zusss #50

    Sorry, but I'm losing it!

    I'm not saying anything unfriendly to you, BS. Just that you ask for advice/tips, I give them, and then you go hard against them because Google says something else. Am I unfriendly because of that? If so, feel free to point it out by copying my text.

    And then (even worse): you weigh what's worse: what you and/or your girlfriend have experienced, or what others here have experienced! Sorry, but I really don't think that's normal. You know absolutely nothing about me or about what a lot of women here have gone through. So please keep your mouth shut about that.

    Anyway, I wish you lots of success with getting pregnant. I'm distancing myself from this whole discussion from now on

  11. Anonymous Guest #51

    It's all really tough, but it's very relatable for some here, while for others it's not so bad. Everyone has their own struggles, of course.

    I think things are being misinterpreted. I don't read it the way you describe it. It was always mentioned that anything is possible. But the much more likely scenario is that it isn't. The experiences of the ladies here mean more to me than Google.

    So I'd stick with 32 days. Neatly and regularly, then.

  12. Bs1987 started this #52

    I'm going to stop talking about this.

    Don't know what regular is. There are also some from 29. So yeah

  13. Anoniem Guest #53

    Strange story all around.

  14. Anonymous Guest #54

    Unfriendly woman.

    I'm currently in a tough therapy process. Your reactions clearly show that you're still carrying a lot of pain. Work through it. Life is so much nicer without it. Especially when you're about to bring a baby into the world.

  15. Lijn #55

    We'll only test on the 12th

    Then it's her NOD. According to the calculators

    And no, I don't have a tender soul but I think I've been through more in my life than 75% of people here.



    And I'll keep my opinion to myself
    Bs1987

    Exactly that kind of reaction is why many people respond the way they do now. Who are you to say you've been through more than 75% of the people here?
    You just can't make comments like that. You don't even know us. I see below what you've been through. Very unpleasant, but don't be mistaken. There are plenty of people with similar stories or worse. Every house has its cross.
    It also makes no sense to bring up stories like this "alongside." This is about getting pregnant, etc., not about who can tell the worst story.

  16. Muurbloempje Guest #56

    Gotta say, you guys are really hard on him. Be happy that there's a man who actually takes an interest and is involved. Read enough stories of women who are angry because their husbands aren't involved at all, or don't even want a second child. Reading this, I wonder if this is really the right place for pregnant women. His answers aren't always correct, but then he opens up and gets reactions like "vague story." Sorry, just my 2 cents.

  17. Anonymous Guest #57

    Meanwhile, the sore has changed here, yes. Not on page 1 yet.

  18. Anonymous Guest #58

    And? Her due date is today, right?

  19. Puck #59

    I don't think this is serious, do you?

  20. Mila Guest #60

    Oh, come on, Puck... I think his girlfriend's name is something like Firefly or whatever. Isn't it handy to have a partner who keeps track of all your ailments and checks with other women to see if they have them too?

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