1st trimester
Sweet baby secret
Hi! 
Don't worry too much about what others think; I think you'll only feel like crap because of it. I've been in a similar situation where a lot of people from my circle had an opinion. My situation was like this: I was 19 when I got pregnant with my son. I still lived at home, and my partner also lived with his parents. We wouldn't be able to get a place of our own in the short term either. (It actually worked out in the end thanks to a few really lovely people). All in all, not the ideal situation. Everyone had an opinion about this, but that's how I quickly found out what people thought of me (us). I had to cut ties with many contacts because of this, because sorry, I really can't deal with people who say ridiculous things to me. At first, it hurt, but before our son was born, I flipped the switch. I told myself; these people are absolutely not worth worrying about.
Sometimes you have to rise above certain people, girl. This is your life, your situation, and your kids! As long as you and your kids are happy! Because believe me, now (soon) you'll hear people have an opinion, but when everything goes your way and you've created your own success, you'll hear very little about it!
I'm 22 now, my son is almost 2, and I'm pregnant with the second one. I'm happier than ever, and yes, people have an opinion about the age at which I have children. But luckily, it's MY life, not theirs. When someone makes a comment about it now, I'm also very straight to the point and ask what they're meddling in with. That's it.
I hope you find this helpful! I wish you a very beautiful pregnancy.
Don't worry too much about what others think; I think you'll only feel like crap because of it. I've been in a similar situation where a lot of people from my circle had an opinion. My situation was like this: I was 19 when I got pregnant with my son. I still lived at home, and my partner also lived with his parents. We wouldn't be able to get a place of our own in the short term either. (It actually worked out in the end thanks to a few really lovely people). All in all, not the ideal situation. Everyone had an opinion about this, but that's how I quickly found out what people thought of me (us). I had to cut ties with many contacts because of this, because sorry, I really can't deal with people who say ridiculous things to me. At first, it hurt, but before our son was born, I flipped the switch. I told myself; these people are absolutely not worth worrying about.
Sometimes you have to rise above certain people, girl. This is your life, your situation, and your kids! As long as you and your kids are happy! Because believe me, now (soon) you'll hear people have an opinion, but when everything goes your way and you've created your own success, you'll hear very little about it!
I'm 22 now, my son is almost 2, and I'm pregnant with the second one. I'm happier than ever, and yes, people have an opinion about the age at which I have children. But luckily, it's MY life, not theirs. When someone makes a comment about it now, I'm also very straight to the point and ask what they're meddling in with. That's it.
I hope you find this helpful! I wish you a very beautiful pregnancy.
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