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who can help me..!!

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bambinaGuest ·
Hey ladies, I’m in an incredibly stressful situation. I took a test 3 days BEFORE my expected period, thinking I was already 3-4 days late. Result: positive! I called my GP, but I couldn’t believe it. At the doctor’s, they did 2 more urine tests (by then I was 2 days late). Result: both negative! But because the first test (which I brought with me) was positive, I had to wait another 2 days and then have a blood test done. During those 2 days, I started paying attention to symptoms I’d had for a while, like stabbing pains in my chest, which led to a mammogram for my breast complaints. Hemorrhoids removed, nausea, headaches (for which I was referred to a neurologist), and because I had no control over my bladder, I was referred to a urologist—almost everything with no results. I kept menstruating, sometimes 3 days late, other times 2 months perfectly on time. Still, I took tests in between, and they were all negative. Since I was getting my periods, I thought, nothing to worry about. Now I’ve had that blood test done today, but I have to wait 5 days for the results. Tonight I discovered that fluid is coming from my nipples! Normally, that’s around 6 months of pregnancy! I’m absolutely desperate and haven’t really talked about it with people around me. I hoped an independent person could advise me. Thanks in advance! Love

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  1. kimjoy #2

    Hi girl,
    Wow, what a story. Luckily, I don’t have any experience with this!!! But were you actively trying to get pregnant, or would it have been an accident!!! Either way, lots of strength! And let us know how it goes?

  2. Cin #3

    Wow, that's intense... and bizarre too. You'd think that by around 6 months it should turn out pretty positive...
    I hope there's clarity soon, girl!
    Stay strong!

  3. Lynn #4

    Hey girl,
    I can imagine you don't remember anymore!! Really a bizarre situation!
    We're also trying to get pregnant and last month I really thought it had worked... Also symptoms and fluid from my nipples! Even real white drops that formed on my nipple!! I didn't understand anything!! I'm not pregnant, but where did that come from?? You did have a positive test though... so that's weird! I didn't have that! Good luck girl
    love, Lynn

  4. Anonymous Guest #5

    Hey.. no, I wasn't really thinking about it. My partner isn't ready for it yet. The plan was to wait a year or two, by which time things might also improve. I don't know what to do either.. Do you have kids?

  5. Anonymous Guest #6

    Thank you!

  6. kimjoy #7

    Oh my, that's so annoying. No, I don't have kids yet, I'm pregnant with my first, just 24 weeks, but it's been a long journey for me after 3 miscarriages, so we're really happy!!

    Wishing you strength and wisdom! Love, Kim

  7. Anonymous Guest #8

    Hey Lynn, I just called the doctor and she said the results came in and they are. So also negative. I do have to do another test in 2 weeks if I still haven't gotten my period..same story as that you have something..do you know more already? The human body is a wonder! I've also read stories about negative blood tests and a pregnancy.. my sister-in-law was already 3 months pregnant and the blood test still gave negative then..I wish you guys a baby so much!! Success of course and the only thing I can do is wait until I get my period in the next 2 weeks.

  8. Anonymous Guest #9

    Congratulations..! I'm also only 23 and honestly not ready for a baby yet. I just called the doctor about the fluid coming from my nipple.

  9. Anonymous Guest #10

    Haha, something went wrong but the blood test was negative now. They told me to test again in 2 weeks.. How far along are you with your pregnancy?

  10. kimjoy #11

    I'm over 28 weeks pregnant.

  11. Anonymous Guest #12

    Okay, do you also have discharge from your nipples? It makes me feel really nauseous when it comes from my breast, and everything is so unclear.

  12. Lynn #13

    Hi girl,
    Well, you'll just have to wait and see... I felt the same way, it felt so weird and I barely recognized my own body anymore... I just let it be and didn't go to the doctor about it! I'm in my fertile period again now, so we're going to get busy again, ha ha...
    Good luck!

  13. Anonymous Guest #14

    Hey Shanna, thanks but I haven't spoken to a gynecologist yet, but I'll call her on Monday. When I spoke to the HA, she said I need to do another home test in 2 weeks... After I've been to the gyno, I'll probably know more. I am indeed totally confused, almost desperate, what's wrong with my body! But I'll keep you updated, thnx

  14. Anonymous Guest #15

    Haha have fun.. I'll make an appointment with the gynecologist for an ultrasound, then I'll have some clarity, I think.. but anyway, thanks, I'll keep you updated.

  15. Anonymous Guest #16

    Hey ladies, there's clarity now and I had said I'd keep you updated... the result is a miscarriage After severe abdominal cramps and pain, there was ultimately a lot of bleeding. I called the GP, and she said there was a low hCG level in my blood, 0.2, which made her doubt. I'm definitely sad, and my partner seems to be dealing with it more than I expected, but I see it as God's protection. There must be a reason for it... Well ladies, wishing you all lots of success, luck, and love during your pregnancies, and hoping from the bottom of my heart that healthy babies will come out of it!! Love,

  16. Lynn #17

    hey girl,
    I can imagine you're feeling really down about this! That's quite unexpected... and no doubt a shock for both of you! I wish you lots of strength, and as you said, lots of luck and love!
    Love, Lynn

  17. kimjoy #18

    @anon, lots of strength!

  18. rachelle Guest #19

    Hi, I hope someone can help me. I had severe headaches for 2 days, and on the 3rd day I came down with the flu. As that started to fade, I noticed a lot of white-to-yellowish discharge that seemed like it could be an infection. Then, when I pressed on my nipple, white fluid came out. I’m wondering what all this could be, since I’ve never experienced this before. Oh, and I forgot to mention that my period started on May 15th. When it was completely over and I felt clean, I noticed some brown blood again after a few days. Does anyone know what this could all mean? If anyone can relate to this, thanks in advance!

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