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verward18Guest ·
hi there!

I'm really worried about something.. and maybe you guys can help me:
I just turned 18, and I had unsafe "sex" with a guy in early August.
"sex" because he was inside me for 20 seconds and I realized then that I had stopped taking the pill and there were no condoms in sight.

now I think I might be pregnant..
But I did get my period. It was very light last month, but the month before that it was really heavy. I have very sensitive breasts, stomach pain. kind of nerve twitches in my (lower) abdomen and I feel like I have to pee more often.

I took 3 tests and they were all negative (thankfully)

But even though the tests were negative, the thought that I'm pregnant keeps haunting me. I'm quite a thinker, an overthinker as they say in English. so maybe I'm just convincing myself of this.
I know I should go to the doctor, but I really don't dare.

Also, (the guy and) I are severely overweight.

do you guys have any idea if I'm pregnant or not?
I really don't know what to do....

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  1. verward18 started this #2

    oh yeah, forgot to mention, the guy didn't come at all
  2. elsie Guest #3

    Starting in August would mean you'd be 7 months pregnant now, so I think you'd have different symptoms. But if you really don't feel confident, go see your GP for your own peace of mind. It doesn't seem likely that you're pregnant to me.
  3. Marieke #4

    That sounds really weird to me too... I'd go see the doctor for a bit. Maybe it's an STD or a bladder infection or something? Good luck!
  4. hartje #5

    After the first time, your body changes for some people, but if it's been seven months, I wouldn't worry too much, I think.

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