nepper?

melis1606 started this #41

Yeah, exactly, just like zecht and very weirdly spelled names. No punctuation in the sentence, multiple posts in a row. All things that make me not respond anymore when I see a question formatted like that!

kim #42

haha I always forget my points too hihi.

but now I saw the same post from her in 2 different topics under a different name. oops. she's getting sloppy haha.

Anonymous Guest #43

She’s definitely getting sloppy and just saw a really nasty message from her or him, whatever it is... So from October, she's already been actively involved with babbling.
I wonder why she does this...
Is she so ashamed of her own life?
That's pretty harsh, isn't it?

kim #44

omg. I'm now being accused of being the one in the mother-in-law from abroad thread. Hilarious.

Also very coincidentally by an anonymous person.

Anonymous Guest #45

Kim, I was in that other thread too, but that damn reaction wasn't meant for you. Sorry if it came across that way, but I thought Genne's "fake" reaction was so ridiculous towards her.
But my apologies to you.

Anonymous Guest #46

Damie was supposed to be mine.

melis1606 started this #47

Anonymous, Kristy, Felicia, Feline, Ronaldo or whatever you want to call yourself... Just stop this and go seek help for all your personalities! Nobody finds it enjoyable, and everyone has seen through you. We're talking about serious things here, and we'd also like serious responses! No nonsense!

kim #48

totally agree with Melis.

AngelRinoa87 #49

Unfortunately, there’s always bound to be a “bad apple” somewhere, so to speak. I really find that such a shame because Brabbels is such a lovely site where many people can share their stories, seek advice, and give advice. Ever since I thought I was pregnant, I’ve often popped in to check in. Now at 34 weeks and 6 days, I still come online to browse the forum. And then I read this... I noticed it too, and you try to look past it at first, but that’s hard. For someone who then gets a hurtful response, it can make them not want to come back to Brabbels at all, and that would really be a pity. So, to be honest, I think this topic is extremely necessary so that newcomers know there’s someone in there ruining it for others. Most people here are women and men who do respect each other.

deveney Guest #50

hi

deveney Guest #51

hey girls,
I think I've come across her before.
but no matter how unreasonable and fierce she often speaks, what we're doing with her now is putting her in the spotlight. it seems like nowadays you have to be arrogant or annoying to get attention. look, we ignore her but we're putting her in the picture, that's not worth it. have a life and don't make her so important. she doesn't deserve that? and I agree with Rick, the internet is never the real world.

melis1606 started this #52

...... Do I need to say anything????

AngelRinoa87 #53

Deveney, you're partly right, and we might be giving that person attention this way. But through their topic, it becomes known that there's someone who treats others disrespectfully. I think that's a good thing, despite the attention they get. Because this site should remain pleasant for everyone. And a warned person counts for two (I thought).

kim #54

Everything that's guest and typing like that, I don't trust a single word anymore.!!!

kim #55

I'm scared it's not really going to stop. This is so frustrating, but I don't think I can do much about it, I'm afraid.

Tammy #56

Is this a pregnancy forum or a language forum??
Anyone can sign up here, pregnant or not. Everyone has their own opinion on certain things. If things are written that can't be tolerated, the moderator of this page will probably intervene, I assume. Not everyone is top-notch at Dutch spelling, but that doesn't seem like a reason to look for fake guests.

People get angry at what Mrs. X asks or says. WHY? Everyone who is pregnant does it in their own way. I say, don't stress so much about others when you're pregnant. What does it matter if one smokes, drinks, or uses drugs... Just stress about your own stuff, then I think you'll have more than enough to deal with!!

Sorry, I have nothing to do with Mrs. X the faker... but come on, ladies, this is a forum.

Anonymous Guest #57

Well, Tammy, I don't think you know what this is about.

Tammy #58

I've read this whole thread... I'm usually pretty quick to take offense too. That's very honest. But since I've been pregnant, I've become a bit calmer and realized that what some people say doesn't have any value for me anymore. This is the internet... take in what's important to you, and let the rest go. This is and remains a forum where everyone can say whatever they want. Don't pay attention to it. Because the one who cares ends up sitting on the couch with a head full of poison, while the other person enjoys it... It's not worth it. You'll encounter people like this, and there's no getting around it.

miss barbie Guest #59

People, finally someone who writes what I was thinking! Do you guys make yourself stressed about that person's spelling? Tammy is absolutely right. We're mothers, we're not teenagers anymore; that's what you do as a teen. And besides, she's completely right. This is and remains a forum, and if someone asks a question, you can expect that there will be people who respond negatively. With all due respect, but I believe that if you ask a question to strangers on the internet who don't even know you and don't know you personally, you can expect all sorts of responses. I also find it inappropriate to take offense at someone's incorrect spelling. Really well said, Tammy.

kim #60

It’s really not about the spelling at all. Maybe you should have read more before posting your opinion here.

The issue is that the same person keeps responding under a different name with negative and hurtful words. Is this forum meant to hurt each other?? I don’t think so!! What we’re saying is that we can tell from the writing style that it’s just her again.

Everyone is allowed to share their opinion, but don’t constantly pick on someone else to hurt even more people. Maybe you should read the topic "Mother-in-law from abroad" and that’s just one example. It’s just someone completely belittling another person. Personally, I don’t think that’s normal. And then she’s not happy with the topic about the high chance of having triplets, because in that thread she makes it very clear how perfect and amazing she is. But that’s only her talking to herself. Man, she’s only there for herself, and the kids don’t like her at all... and she thinks the kids are just a burden too.

Maybe take the time to really understand what’s being said here. This kind of topic isn’t opened just like that. And the moderators are aware of this and are trying to help out.

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