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samantha20
Hi ladies,

maybe a bit of a weird question, but I'm looking for young moms who are also due in March 2014 and would like to chat and hang out.

I find it hard to talk about my pregnancy with my friends; they often don't really get it, hence this question.

Greetings,
Samantha

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  1. fay Guest #2

    I was 22 when I had my little girl Yara and 23 when I was pregnant with my second little girl Mila. And just 6 months after giving birth to her, I'm now 27. Yara is almost five (on January 31st) and Mila is 3 years old. Greetings, Fay.

  2. fay Guest #3

    And what I still wanted to mention: I'm working on it. Next Monday is the big day – will I be on my period or not? Greetings, Fay

  3. samira Guest #4

    I was 24 when I had my first son. Now I'm 27 and pregnant with the second one, due in March 2014.

  4. Samantha Guest #5

    Oh, it's so nice to hear your stories now.

    I'm currently 20 and 24 weeks pregnant with a girl, due on March 17th, and I'll be turning 21 myself on March 23rd.

    I find it all quite exciting. Sometimes I feel unsure and wonder if I have all the baby stuff, but I feel very happy.

  5. Samantha Guest #6

    How long have you been working on the 3rd one now?

  6. Ilze22 #7

    Hi ladies,

    My due date is March 23rd, I'm 23 weeks pregnant now and 22 years old.

    Best, Ilze

  7. - #8

    Hi everyone!

    I was still a couple of weeks shy of 19 when I was pregnant with my son, and now he'll be 1 year old in just two weeks. I'm 21 now and 21 weeks pregnant with our little girl. My due date is April 5th, but they might induce me a bit earlier, so I could give birth in March. I've always wanted young kids. When I was pregnant with my son, I couldn't really talk about it with my friends because they weren't thinking about that at all, and to be honest, I've also made quite a few new friends because my life is so different from theirs now. But I don't mind it too much; I really enjoy it like this with my little family. It's just a pity sometimes that you can't really share your experiences with anyone.

    Lots of love

  8. fay Guest #9

    Hi Samantha, I'm only just 3 weeks into it for a third. Greetings, Fay

  9. samantha20 started this #10

    @Fay, oh, I'm so curious how long it lasts, that's exciting!

    It's nice to hear your stories. How did your family react? And are you all still together with your partner, and do you live together?

    Haha, lots of questions, I'm just curious!

  10. - #11

    Hey Samantha, I got married when I was 19 (my husband is 8.5 years older) and two months later we were pregnant. My family was very positive about it because it had always been clear that I wanted young kids. Are you still with your boyfriend? Was it a planned pregnancy or not? And how old are you, if I may ask? (I'm curious too, haha :-p) Love,

  11. Elf Guest #12

    You know what's funny? My daughter (born in 2011) is named Yara Fay!

  12. Fay Guest #13

    I'm 27 and my husband is 38. We've been together for 11 years now. We were together for 6 years before we started having kids. I was 22 when our first daughter, Kyara, was born, and I was 23 when I got pregnant with the second one, turning 24 right before she was born.

  13. fay Guest #14

    And secretly, I still have a wish for a boy, but I'm already super happy with our little family as it is now. Greetings, Fay

  14. Angela Guest #15

    Hey Manon!
    I notice we have some similarities I'm 19 now and getting married in August. And it looks like we're both 4 weeks pregnant except my due date is in August. A month before my wedding haha. How did things go with your friends? Because my friends don't seem to understand that I want young kids. My boyfriend and I have been trying for a while now. We had a miscarriage in the summer (unexpectedly, I didn't know I was pregnant), so we'll be overjoyed if we get pregnant now. He's 4 years older than me. And we've been engaged for 2 years. Greetings xxx

  15. esje Guest #16

    Hi everyone,

    I was just 21 when my oldest was born... (he's 12 now). Being a young mom is truly the best thing that's ever happened to me!! Yeah, it's tough sometimes, but now that he's older, it's amazing!! It's like you understand your child better, and we can talk really well about everyday life and what he's going through, without him losing "respect" for me. Because I still think it's super important that he sees me as his mom, not just a friend..

  16. esje Guest #17

    Oh...

    My husband was 19 when our oldest was born... 7 years later we became parents to another young man through IVF, and now, 5 years later, on 28/11/'13 we had the embryo transfer for another pregnancy (don't know yet if it's going to stick). In summer 2012, we got married, with our boys as groomsmen... All in all, my husband and I have been together for 16.5 years now!

  17. Mommy-Of-Nyana #18

    I was 22 when my little girl was born in January 2013 I turned 23 in March. She’s already 10 months old now

    Being a young mom is fun, but unfortunately, I’m noticing more and more people drifting away from my circle of friends... unfortunately, but let’s see. Those who are pulling away aren’t worth my friendship and love, and especially not my daughter’s

    Now, 10 months after giving birth, I’m feeling that itch again for a 2nd Gosh, I miss being pregnant... but unfortunately, my partner isn’t ready yet. He wants to enjoy our little girl a bit more, and I completely respect that. So we’ll have to wait a little longer for a 2nd

    Love

  18. diana Guest #19

    I just want to respond to this. Esje, I was 14 when I had my daughter, and she was raised by my aunt. My mom gave my daughter away to my aunt's sister because my aunt couldn't have kids, so my mom wanted to do this for her. She said, "At least it's still family of yours." But I really, really have a hard time with this.

  19. Diana Guest #20

    because no one asked me, I was 14 and way too young to be a mother and raise a child, my mom thought. She said, "You're doing something good for your aunt too, be glad," she said, "that I didn't have you adopted by strangers, so your girl stays in the family." I hated that they named her Tamara, that's how she's registered, but my aunt calls her differently, and since then she's been called that. She's now called Tamara.

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