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BetsiebetGuest ·
hi everyone.

I had sex with a casual hookup on October 3rd. I took the morning-after pill then. I got my period the next day, from October 4th to 13th.
My fertile window was supposedly October 14th to 19th. Don't judge me please, but my ex came over again. We had sex on October 21st and 22nd. Unprotected. Singing our way out of church. On the 25th I was with my hookup again. He didn't come. I couldn't go through with it. Then again on the 29th, 30th, and November 1st with my ex.

I and my ex had unprotected sex on all those days. Singing our way out of church. According to the "My Calendar" app, it was after my fertile window.

Now I'm 7 days late. Pregnancy test is negative. When showering this morning, I noticed something white/clear coming from my nipple.

Could I be pregnant, or is my body just completely thrown off by the morning-after pill I took before my period?

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  1. Most15 #2

    Don’t judge? Seriously?
    Please! We live in the Netherlands, there are plenty of options for contraception.
    This site has many lovely ladies who are eager to get pregnant, so call your GP and discuss it with them.
    And try to be a bit kinder to your body.

  2. Amber Guest #3

    Yes, and those lovely ladies can also ask all their questions here and shouldn't just be referred to the GP because someone else thinks she's not being careful enough with her body. It's her body, and just like you, she should be able to decide for herself what she does with it. So yes, don't judge, or just move on to the next topic

    I think your cycle might be a bit off, but of course, I'm not sure since you've been quite active haha. What if you count from the bleeding after the morning-after pill? Maybe your ovulation is later then? I'd suggest testing until you get your period.

  3. Anonymous Guest #4

    You were on your period for 9 days, that’s quite a long time! That’s good too, lots of sex with two guys all the time! Were you at least a bit tidy in between? Otherwise you’ll have to ask all sorts of other questions on other forums!

  4. Most15 #5

    I judge when I want to, Amber

  5. Orchidea #6

    You can always get pregnant after unsafe sex. A test will give you the answer.

  6. Amber Guest #7

    Not everyone wants to get pregnant, sis These topics that apparently are so sensitive for you can also be discussed. It's a bit mean to judge others behind a screen.

  7. Most15 #8

    I can't really sit with the idea that you think I'm being cheap, Amber
    Just say that I'm being careful with my body, no big deal.
    I'm also stopping this discussion now and won't read any more replies here. We won't agree anyway. Have a nice evening

  8. Susanna #9

    I also thought you couldn't get pregnant from singing in church, so I was surprised to find out I was already 8 weeks pregnant. Three weeks later, I had a miscarriage I was supposed to take a test two weeks after my last period, which would be November 15th. Until then, there's unfortunately nothing else you can do but wait

  9. Susanna #10

    @anoniem I mean singing our way out of church, but I was on the pill back then, so it still came as a surprise

  10. Anonymous Guest #11

    The most bizarre part is actually that you got pregnant while on the pill. Why leave the church singing? Couldn't he have just stayed in the church to sing?

  11. Susanna #12

    He had trouble finishing up; it went easier if he gave a hand but it was already 8 years ago, so I can't remember everything so well anymore

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