Orchidea, congratulations on your pregnancy! Don't pay any attention to the trolls. They're just internet trolls who thrive on negative attention. Ignoring them is better; they can't handle it.
And just like that, a topic suddenly isn't about her vs. someone else, but about respect and love for a nice girl.
Anonymous; Zuss hits the nail on the head; you're not exactly very intelligent, are you? No one here has ever complained about Orchidea's contributions, except maybe you in December. Do you really think everyone's opinion will suddenly change because a jealous, negative bitch opens such a cowardly topic? Maybe you should have thought this through a bit, but thinking and typing is hard with two brain cells, I guess.
Orchidea; what a calm response from you, haha! Leave that crazy person alone and enjoy all the nice words from the girls you really like. Every time "Anonymous" replies, there are many positive responses to you, so her goal isn't achieved. I'm curious what Kleintje013 will do with her!
You sure have guts. Why not just be yourself? Are you scared? Orchidea has the right to announce her pregnancy and to be happy about it, just like everyone else. If it bothers you, feel free to leave the forum.
Wow, I've been on and off this forum since 2013, and I've never seen anything like this before... so cowardly and low, honestly. The hater is clearly jealous... how old are you? A message like that just can't come from an adult woman.
Don't let it get to you @orchidea, enjoy your well-deserved pregnancy
People aren't responding to this thread anymore. This poor little person is just looking for attention; otherwise, she would have sent Orchidea a private message.
Haha do you want to know that, Mila? Or was that more meant sarcastically? I'll keep it polite and say that I would kindly make it clear to her that she should mind her own pitiful life & if she wants to act so tough she should use her own name. I have no respect for such people at all. If I can't stand something, it's this sneaky, backstabbing behavior & also towards someone who doesn't deserve it at all!!
I haven't been very active on the forum lately, but I happened to see this pop up when I dropped in for a quick peek, and I just had to say that I think this is absolutely amazing! Orchidea don't let it get to you! You're such a sweet, brave, and strong girl, and it's exactly because of your story and advice that you help others ! Don't let yourself be upset by such a pitiful person who talks out of pure jealousy.
Oh Orchidea, let Anoniem stew in her own juices. Responding only makes it worse. Go enjoy your pregnancy and don't stress about these kinds of posts.
I've noticed that on this forum you're only allowed to chat with the group. In the past, I also got quite some comments when I was honest about my feelings or about what certain posts did to me. Or when I honestly gave my opinion when someone asked for it. It also got me quite a few hurtful remarks. Ultimately, ignoring is the best. Even with the mention of our forum names, we're quite anonymous here, and that's why harsh things are often said. Ignore it and just chat with the people you click with!
Well, there you have your true colors. Others aren’t allowed to post ultrasound photos in a support group because that’s inappropriate, right, Orchidea? But you’re allowed to post your “I’m so happy” 3+ weeks pregnant test photo after three stories about possible/early miscarriages. Luckily, no one reacted to your wonderful gesture. I find that at least inappropriate. You could’ve waited a bit longer.
But yeah, your happiness is what matters most.
Good luck with that… I’m out of here!
izzy:
Glad to see you're also on Flikker, Anoniem! If you had read the replies a bit more carefully, you could have seen that Orchidea also expressed her sympathy to those who might have had a (early) miscarriage. Does your day sometimes start with teasing Orchidea and end with teasing Orchidea? Stalker. Seriously, get well soon, because jealousy is a nasty disease.