Orchidea away

Sorry..? What exactly am I doing wrong according to you?

I vote against it

Wow, nice job! Applause to you for having the guts to do this under an anonymous name—go ahead, say your own name if you dare! If you're smart, you'll take this thread down because what you're doing makes no sense at all! And once again, if you want to insult someone, do it under your real name I have zero respect for you, you pathetic little person hiding safely behind your screen!

Oh my god! Have the guts and reply with your regular account instead of as a guest, and then under such a name too.

The one who clearly doesn't belong here is you. Bah, disgusting!

Could you please explain to me why I’m such a nasty woman?

I’ve been back on the forum for about 4 or 5 days now, and I’ve only shared the joy of my pregnancy. Am I not allowed to be happy about 20 rounds, including 1 miscarriage, just like everyone else? ;-( I wish everyone the best. I’ve always supported everyone hard while my own pregnancy didn’t work out, and now I’m supposed to leave according to you? And you seem to be a hater? How so? ;-( Why do you do this anonymously? Why don’t you just say who you are, because I’m sure you’re definitely reading along? But please do it with your real account then, so you can explain to me why you want me to leave so badly? What did I say wrong these past days....

I completely agree with you, as you can see from my reply above.
You're such a pathetic and nasty person to dare to do this and not even under your own name!
There's no better person than Orchidea; she has her heart in the right place, and she shouldn't have to put up with this nonsense, especially now.

Don't waste your words on him & enjoy
This pathetic little person isn't worth it!!

Exactly! If anyone doesn't deserve this negativity, it's Orchidea. Damn it. I bet that after many rounds of trying and no result, I or anyone else will also start thinking at some point: why can't I get pregnant while someone else can? Isn't that what this forum is for? To share your feelings, let your heart out, and be happy for each other, etc.

Wow.. the fact that you posted this.. says a lot about you as a person..

@orchidea there are always rotten apples around.. this one was apparently already sour..

Orchidea, don't put so much energy into such people. Jealousy is a nasty beast. Everyone is happy for you.

I can only laugh at this. That you're so jealous, nasty, and pathetic that you make a topic just to get rid of someone, haha... Are you looking for attention? Maybe you should first look for a bit of maturity! Hopefully, it's still somewhere present for you, but given this topic, I'm afraid you'll never find it. Please spend your time elsewhere and take this topic offline.

What a nutcase! And nice and anonymous too. Have the balls to post under your own name, you coward!!!!!! It's clearly someone from Belgium, judging by the spelling.

Read how often you use the word "I" in such a silly way. Just like those 20 rounds that have to be mentioned 1000 times everywhere because you think it's the worst. And you don't even let someone else have something until it's good for yourself first, jealous big loser! Luckily, you have your loyal followers who can't think for themselves and will follow you around anyway.

Look, Anonymous. It’s not exactly easy either, after so many failed attempts, when you’ve been trying for a baby for over a year and a half. It’s not my intention to keep talking about myself, but isn’t this forum exactly meant to let your feelings out...? Why should I only have to listen to other people’s stories, while I’m not allowed to say anything myself? Is that forbidden? Just because I repeat that I’ve been through twenty rounds? Just for that...? Is that really the reason why I should leave? Because this is also a place where, indeed, I (!!) can open my heart when things are tough. I’ve supported everyone here during my entire time. I’ve also repeated often enough (did you miss that, Anonymous!?) that it’s NOT about how many rounds you’re going through, that every round is one too many. But why can’t I then indicate how long I’ve been trying? Everyone else is allowed to? Don’t you understand that it’s pretty draining, time and again, that disappointment, having to go to the GP, being referred to a fertility clinic? No, apparently not. And if you had really read along from the very beginning, you wouldn’t be reacting like this now.

And yes? Do I only wish someone else success if it’s worked for me first? Gosh. Where do you get that from...? Are you actually reading along? ;-( How often have I had to put my own feelings aside, distance myself, because I noticed I couldn’t keep being happy for everyone anymore? Regularly... because I was there for everyone, while unfortunately it wasn’t working out for me, and then I’m a jealous twit? Yes, I was, but I suppressed that feeling by distancing myself in time... and still? Aren’t you allowed to be jealous if it doesn’t work out for yourself? ;-( Aren’t you allowed to feel anything at all? Am I supposed to agree with everything? Do I really have to just listen to others and keep my mouth shut? I know you’re the same person as in December, and no, I don’t have followers.. those are just the people who I ;-) have been following for longer, and who follow me, so they know what’s behind my baby-wish story. Again, I really don’t understand why you’re so bitter towards me. I haven’t reacted harshly or meanly anywhere in the past few days. I was just happy, felt blessed that it finally worked after quite a long time. Isn’t that allowed to be said? And what does it matter then that I want to support others by saying that it also worked naturally for me after 20 rounds? What a shame, that apparently I’m not allowed anything from you. But well, you apparently know me well, now I’d also like to know under which name you’re chatting on Brabbels. We all know this is an anonymous name, just to distract me. But how would you feel if I did that to you? I also don’t think some people here are always very handy, but I don’t make a hate topic out of that either? I don’t tease anyone away either? Even though you experience it that way? Because in December YOU also reacted with the fact that I was such a twit because I was so busy updating the list and therefore asked “sorry” for some information, not even personal, more for fun. The rounds, the number of babies, it wasn’t my intention, Anonymous, to come across as mean. But more to live with each other. You also experienced it that way that you couldn’t be on the list if you didn’t provide complete information, of course you’re allowed on the list, it just takes a lot of work to keep it updated, and that was so incredibly tough ;-( but everyone is free to say what they want here..? And it’s your opinion, that’s allowed. But can’t we just solve it between the two of us? Instead of such a topic? I don’t find this neat at all, and I also kindly ask you to send me a private message so we can just talk about what’s bothering you. I also hope you want to take this topic offline and stop sowing hate. Again, I don’t agree with everyone here either, but I ignore those people, or I still treat them with respect...

Anonymous, please! How pitiful you are! How low can you get... You have absolutely no idea how difficult the path to baby happiness can be! So just go away with your ridiculous nonsense & leave Orchidea alone!!!

Wow @Orchidea, you're incredibly polite to someone like that... respect for handling it this way! I also want to say that someone who judges so harshly doesn't deserve your effort. Congratulations on your pregnancy, and I hope you'll be able to hold a beautiful baby in your arms within a few months!

Go ahead, say your name, you pathetic f*ck
 
I think it's better if YOU keep your mouth shut!!
 you think you're so great with your anonymous name, but if you're such a tough guy, then give your name, and maybe even your address???

Seriously, what a disgusting person you are, my blood is boiling. You're lucky I don't know who you are, believe me  

Orchidea

Stop feeling the need to justify and explain why and how you do things! You're being too polite to this person, which they don't deserve at all!!

This person is too pathetic to come forward with their own name. Don't dirty your words with her; others will do that for you
You should enjoy yourself, girl!

Wow, what nasty messages, you really dare to do that from behind your screen.
Maybe you should leave this forum yourself. Seems like a good solution to me.
You don't have to become thick friends with everyone on this forum, and you'll like some more than others. But seriously, this says so much more about you than about Orchidea.