What is it so DIFFICULT

So in Turkish, you literally call her vagina . Girlc means that Vajen is vagina in Turkish;
Vajèn is a fantasy name in the vein of Vienna, Fiene, Fenna, etc., known from singer Vajèn van den Bosch.
Vajen is the Turkish word for "vagina".
So yes, you literally call her vagina. If you don't value that, go ahead! It's a bit like someone from another language region wanting to name their son Penis. It might sound cool there, and how much value should she attach to the Dutch meaning? Still, I think he'd have a tough time if he ever got involved with the Netherlands.

I don't place any value on the meaning of a name at all. Besides, we live in the Netherlands, not in Turkey. I think Vajèn is really a beautiful name. So I'd just go for it!

In your opening post, you mentioned that you found it so hard because all the names on the list seemed equally nice. You often try crossing names off, but if a name means “Vagina,” I’d say shorten the list. But luckily, for you, it means you know now!