Young mothers
married to the wrong person
patty Guest ·
Hi everyone,
I recently got married. Now that I'm married, I regret it more than hairs on my head. I care about my husband, but honestly, his whole behavior is pretty damn jerk-like. Together, we also have quite some debt (I think around 4000 euros), and on top of that, I'll be giving birth to our first child soon. I don't know what to do anymore and how I could have been so stupid. Any tips and/or advice?
I recently got married. Now that I'm married, I regret it more than hairs on my head. I care about my husband, but honestly, his whole behavior is pretty damn jerk-like. Together, we also have quite some debt (I think around 4000 euros), and on top of that, I'll be giving birth to our first child soon. I don't know what to do anymore and how I could have been so stupid. Any tips and/or advice?
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Anonymous Guest #2
You marry for better or worse. And it's normally something you shouldn't have to doubt. If you're married in community of property, you're both responsible for half of the debts. So each of you would be on the hook for 2000 euros if you were to get a divorce. Maybe relationship counseling is something for you, seeing that you care about your husband and I assume he cares about you too since he said yes on your wedding day and you're expecting a baby. Make sure that expectations from both sides are clear and reasonable. Therapy or a mediator can help with that.
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