I don't feel attractive anymore.

hi everyone,
i feel so gross now that i'm almost at my 30th week.
i'm very happy to be pregnant but never expected to put on so much weight and get so big. i don't know what to do anymore. with my boyfriend i find it really hard to talk about it, but i feel more and more depressed. everyone just says "oh my god you've really gained a lot" and when i look in the mirror i feel so sad. i cry every day because i don't feel good in my body anymore. being pregnant is nice but getting fat i really don't like. can someone give me tips on how i can feel a bit better in my own skin because i hardly dare to walk around outside anymore. lots of greetings sirinia

I don't feel sexy, but I do feel beautiful. And the fact that I don't feel sexy is actually handy, since I'm not allowed to have sex anymore anyway, haha! Well, at least some positions are still okay, of course..

I actually think it's beautiful that my body can do all this. My bigger breasts, round belly, wider hips... it all belongs here and makes me feel very feminine and fertile!

The stretch marks on my breasts are less noticeable, but I can't really complain about that either. I just hope I don't end up looking like a zebra on my belly later on...

It's more about not being able to move around as well anymore, which makes me feel like a waddling walrus sometimes, haha.

Shopping really helped me out! I got a few nice pants, some pretty shirts, and a summer jacket. I'm getting quite a few compliments now that I look good in them. When buying clothes, I made sure to choose things that would camouflage my less positive features. My breasts are so big that I prefer wearing something that sits a bit looser there. My belly can stand to be noticeable. Maybe it helps?

hi hi,

Yeah, it helps if you treat yourself a bit... nice feminine clothes... skirts, lingerie, facial cleansing and the rest of your body of course and hairdresser etc, luckily my husband finds me very beautiful now that I'm pregnant... even more attractive.
I'm now pregnant with the 2nd and with the 1st he found me just as beautiful and feminine, I sometimes have the idea that I'm getting fatter and less sexy, but then I feel sexy and beautiful because my husband only gives me compliments about my feminine shapes and how beautiful and special he finds me now that I'm pregnant with the 2nd
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Luckily I don't have diarrhea etc... and feel SUPER happy and happy otherwise!!
I shouldn't think about it if my husband would only reject me and say mean things to meand it is indeed so... you do it for a good cause, I gained 20 kilos with the 1st and was at 66 kilos after that... now 19 weeks pregnant with the 2nd and already 4 kilos heavier.oh well it all comes with it

Thanks for the nice tips! I did that back then too and it made me feel better. My skin too, thanks a lot. Now I'm almost at my 34th week, so it can really happen soon. I really want my little girl in my arms Good luck to you all, ladies