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don't know what to do

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karen
Just found out that my neighbor has been crazy about me for quite a while... Now I also notice a lot that he avoids me... He's married, I'm getting married... He really avoids me, and if he can't avoid me, he ignores me or is quiet and shy... I thought he didn't want anything to do with me... Now I don't know how I should behave towards him anymore.

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  1. Anonymous Guest #2

    Just normal, I assume you don't have feelings for him since you're getting married soon. It's his problem that he has feelings for you; he needs to learn to deal with that. The only thing you should do if you don't want anything to do with him is definitely not to flirt with him—that would be mean to him and your future partner.
  2. karen started this #3

    Thanks for responding. I’m just going to keep things normal until the end of the month when he’s moving out with his family. I’m not crazy about him, I’d rather see my friend dead, and the neighbor just has to accept it.
  3. karen started this #4

    Well, I reacted well. I just said hi when I ran into him, which I always did, so I kept doing that. But he’s moving with his wife and kids in two weeks, and then they’re gone.
  4. Anonymous Guest #5

    And just like that, a potential problem solves itself ^_^ Scheeld, you don't have to feel uncomfortable anymore either.

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