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STD test during pregnancy

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kleintje
Can you get an STI test if you're 13 weeks pregnant?

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  1. Nannie ❤ #2

    Hi, yeah that sounds good. You should probably check with your partner first though. Why do you think you have something?

  2. kleintje started this #3

    I found out a few days ago that the father of my baby is keeping someone in mind???? Just to be on the safe side, I guess.

  3. Nannie ❤ #4

    I’d definitely do that too! Oh no, what a mess, girl... Unfortunately, I know that kind of guy too...

    Stay strong!

  4. jessie95 #5

    Ugh, what a shitty situation. I’d just go to the doctor.
    Hope nothing’s wrong, good luck!

  5. kleintje started this #6

    The doctor says I have to wait 3 weeks. Isn't that dangerous?

  6. Nannie ❤ #7

    That’s really bad of your HA. Maybe because the bacteria aren’t present in sufficient amounts yet, but I assume it’s not something from last week? I’d tell your midwife; maybe she can arrange something for you.

  7. kleintje started this #8

    I only found out this week, so Wednesday was just a week ago when I had sex with him, basically..

  8. Nannie ❤ #9

    Yeah, but how long has he already had another woman?

  9. kleintje started this #10

    She says she’s going to be with him for a year, just like me?! Well, you can always catch an STI, you never know if the two of us are the only ones.

  10. Nannie ❤ #11

    Well then, I wouldn't wait any longer at all!!

  11. kleintje started this #12

    He doesn't want to do it any earlier. So I guess I'll just have to wait. I just hope it's not harmful or anything during those 3 weeks.

  12. * #13

    Can I ask if you're staying with that guy?
    If I were you, I'd get myself tested for your health and the baby's.
    Who knows how many other women he's left in the lurch. That's awful.
    How did you find out?
    Strength in this difficult situation.

  13. Nannie ❤ #14

    You can also ask GGZ or GGD by phone. Then it will also be reimbursed if you have a clear reason.

  14. kleintje started this #15

    No, I'm definitely not staying with that guy! That's for sure. I want to get tested too, but it's not that simple—the doctor wants me to wait 3 weeks. I found out because that other girl called me, and the whole story came out. So yeah.

  15. Nannie ❤ #16

    Men... (not all of them)..
    That people can actually live a double life, and even for a whole year!

    I wish you lots of strength anyway, and try to enjoy your pregnancy, okay, for your baby!

  16. Anonymous Guest #17

    Thank you so much, Nannie!! I'll definitely try, but I'm really scared that I'll mess it up because of my stress over the last few days, or because I might have caught some dirty disease from that germaphobe!! Bah! And then dad has to be the one. By the way, I ordered a test online that you have to send to a lab in Amsterdam?

  17. * #18

    Okay girls, I hope you get some clarity soon and that it's not something serious. It's good that you've already found something, it's weird how GPs react nowadays... Some of them... Strength with everything and enjoy your pregnancy despite everything. Is it not possible to arrange an STI test through your VK?

  18. Nannie ❤ #19

    I know exactly how you feel. I made an appointment with the GGZ back then and was allowed to come in. They tested everything and luckily, nothing was wrong.

    Did you ask if that other girl got tested? Or is she still planning to?

  19. Nannie ❤ #20

    Oh, via the GP the bill can add up quickly. €175. So keep that in mind, or ask about it first!

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