Forum Young mothers

It's going to be tough.

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jonge moeder
Hi ladies,

I guess you'll probably be shocked when I tell you my situation.
Well, I'll just start: I'm 13 and will be 14 when my little one is born.
I'm going to keep it, I don't think about having an abortion.
My boyfriend supports me and stands by me completely.
He's older, he's 16. It wasn't planned, of course.
But that doesn't mean it shouldn't come into the world with love.
I'd love to hear your opinions, do you think this is very weird or do you think it's actually very brave? Thanks in advance, x

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  1. jessie95 #2

    Wasn't you 17 just yesterday?

  2. jonge moeder started this #3

    Yeah, that makes sense, Jessie95. I didn’t want to say it at first, I’m really scared that people would immediately say you can’t do it. I already hear that at home from all sides. I thought I’d start at 17, but then I realized they couldn’t really help me anyway, so I started over to really hear what you all think.

  3. jonge moeder started this #4

    Yeah, that's Sana behind me, and my friend's too, and the rest of my family as well, so that's definitely good, Chantie.

  4. Anonymous #5

    Oh that's really nice, you hear that a lot more often, especially with your age. I can imagine they had to swallow hard when you told them. You're quite young after all. And I gave birth in May this year, and a baby really changes everything about the life you know. It's hard to explain. But it's so beautiful. Especially considering your age, I think it's a brave decision. I wish you lots of success and luck.

  5. jonge moeder started this #6

    Thanks Chantie, yes, it's true, it was a bit of a shock, but my brother also had a baby in August and that was also the reason why I went through with the pregnancy because I wouldn't be able to look at my niece anymore. But thank you so much, and congratulations to you with your baby too!

  6. Anonymous #7

    just wondering how you're doing??

  7. mommywithclass.nl Guest #8

    Wow, that's quite intense. Have you had a couple of months to think it over and make a decision yet?
    I'm a young mom too, and it's pretty tough. Having a baby at 14, I guess it must be really hard...

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