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Caught by the little one!
Madelene
If she didn’t see anything else except that you were naked, a bit,
I’d say dad was sick and mom gave him a massage.
Explain it like that, or dad was sick with muscle pain and mom gave him a quick massage.
Or dad and mom did some exercise or sports for the muscles.
I’d actually avoid talking too much about it; the less you say, the faster they’ll forget.
Otherwise, you might make it stick in their minds.
I’d say dad was sick and mom gave him a massage.
Explain it like that, or dad was sick with muscle pain and mom gave him a quick massage.
Or dad and mom did some exercise or sports for the muscles.
I’d actually avoid talking too much about it; the less you say, the faster they’ll forget.
Otherwise, you might make it stick in their minds.
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Madelene started this #2
And with sentences like "mommy would punish," I wouldn't even go along with it at all. You're only making it more confusing for kids. -
Samantha Guest #3
Hi Madelene, thanks for your reply! She obviously saw everything, although my husband quickly pulled away and turned his head. Luckily I was wearing a dress, so standing up was enough to cover everything. Muscle training is indeed a good one; so far she hasn't started on that yet, which is a huge relief for me.
Have you ever experienced this? Or any other girls here? I'm really upset about it, but my husband says I shouldn't worry... -
Madelene started this #4
You're welcome!
I understand you're not feeling at ease about it.
Funny enough, I wouldn't be happy either, but here it's more the other way around—my husband is much more cautious than I am.
He always double-checks at least 10 times whether the kids are really on their tablets and whether the door is properly closed.
But that's good of him, of course
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Madelene started this #5
If she doesn't see you completely naked anymore, then just say what I already mentioned earlier. And if she doesn't ask anything more, you can also say what you saw yesterday: that mom and dad helped get rid of the muscle pain, or what I said about gymnastics. I've never experienced it myself, but if it happens, I would say these things. My husband thinks they're way too young to explain those things. He always says that kids don't come into temptation at a young age to develop an early interest in sex. If nudity and sex become normal for little children, there's a bigger chance they'll start having sex earlier. To prevent that, my husband doesn't want to make it something normal. He thinks sex should become something special in their eyes, something you only do with the person you truly give your heart to later. His words, hi hi. That way, you also prevent them from giving themselves to the first young person who only wants fun. That's how he always puts it
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