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Ectopic pregnancy

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xMichelleeeexx
I went to the GP on Saturday with a lot of pain complaints.
I had stabbing pains from below, bleeding, and could barely walk normally, etc.
So I went to the doctor... and it turned out I was pregnant!
I was very happy because I had wanted this for a while with my partner..
only, quite a lot had happened in the last month or two...
my father passed away, he took his own life.. and
now I'm an orphan at 20... haven't had a great life so far.
but trying to stay positive of course because the future can be really beautiful now
because we really want a baby!!
But yesterday we went to the hospital for an ultrasound and it turned out it was a miscarriage!
I had a feeling it would be like that because so much bleeding and stomach cramps was obviously not good..


I had an ectopic pregnancy! I had to be operated on immediately
and my right fallopian tube couldn't be saved and had to be removed!!


I just hope that pregnancy will work out later on,
even though that one fallopian tube is gone now..
sometimes you really feel like there are only setbacks
let's just hope something good happens!

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  1. Iza #2

    What a sad story.. I wish you both lots of strength during this difficult time.
    Sometimes a combination of extra vitamins and treatments, for example with an osteopath or acupuncturist, can also make a positive contribution. Lots of success and I'm rooting for you!

  2. xMichelleeeexx started this #3

    Yeah, it was all quite emotional... and I was really scared of the operation,
    had never even been in a hospital before!!
    Hope everything's okay now, indeed.

  3. irma Guest #4

    Yay, I'm speechless. Good luck with it, and first give it a place, and hopefully it'll work out again.

    I've been at it for a bit over a year now for the second little wonder. It's about time.

  4. My1987 #5

    Wow, that's intense, girl!!
    I know someone who also had an ectopic pregnancy in her Eam and was seen way too late. They sent her away each time, and eventually, they had to remove her fallopian tube. But she's now the mother of a beautiful girl!
    So, with just one fallopian tube, it can still work out perfectly.

  5. Grote_wens Guest #6

    Hi,
    I also had an ectopic pregnancy back in November 2015. It was really bad for me – both of my fallopian tubes had to be removed, and I only had one fully developed ovary left. We’d already been trying for a baby for 1.5 years.
    After the surgery, we were told we could only get pregnant through IVF. So we started in February 2016. After the first embryo transfer, I got pregnant, but unfortunately, at 8 weeks, something went wrong. The baby stopped growing.
    So far, I haven’t been pregnant again, but we’re not giving up.

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