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loesjeGuest ·
I had sex for the first time with a condom.
It didn't last very long, but later that same day we did it again and that also didn't last long. The next morning my boyfriend had a condom on but didn't cum.. 2 days ago I got a bladder infection and now I'm very nauseous and have lower back pain. These are symptoms of pregnancy.
And I'm supposed to get my period in about 14 days and this happened last week.. what do you guys think?
I can't buy a pregnancy test at the moment.
I'm panicking, I've never had lower back pain before, and I also have stabbing pains on the left and right below.
I mean, with a condom, it didn't last long plus he didn't cum, impossible right.. ?

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  1. Siskaa #2

    Don't worry about it. You'd only need to worry if the condom had torn. Pain in your lower back and stuff can be related to a bladder infection
  2. twinkietje #3

    Hi anon,

    Getting pregnant is never impossible.
    If you've had sex, there's always a chance.
    The only thing I can tell you is that if you're due for your period in 14 days, you can only test then.
    The symptoms could be, but it seems pretty early to me to feel anything right now.
    I hope this helps you out.
  3. Anonymous Guest #4

    Too early, yes, only 1 week.. and a bladder infection wasn't that severe, just a burning sensation, but I got a course of antibiotics and since then I've been having stabbing pains and discomfort in my lower back, which still really worries me.. thanks
  4. Aloly #5

    Very small chance because you did indeed use a condom and didn't cum.
    Bladder infections are also common during the first few times having sex. Don't worry!
  5. Benthe #6

    Probably you already know that you didn't get pregnant??

    Maybe it's wise to start using the pill now that you're sexually active and (still) don't want children....
  6. Biebsie #7

    Hmmm. I once had a urinary tract infection, or what they call a bruised urethra. (Yes, that can happen.)
    This was also due to sex, the doctor on duty told me. Sometimes you can get carried away and go at it pretty passionately, and then he might hit something that results in a UTI.
  7. Biebsie #8

    @ the fetish person.
    I’d look for a girlfriend for a good relationship and get her pregnant. You could enjoy your fetish for nine months straight

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