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Am I crazy?!

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m@ma2015
Hi everyone. I'm Deeske and I'm 34 years old. My husband is 48 and we have a little daughter (Nadine) who's just turning 4.
According to some people, I'm crazy. Why?!

I'm religious and have always received a sign from God that I would have 2 more children before I turn 35.
Last year I was pregnant, but unfortunately, it ended in miscarriage after 9 weeks. I was due on March 1, 2015, which was also miscarriage #9. All that time, my husband and I hadn't had any intercourse. But on March 1, we suddenly did. And as if it was meant to be, I ovulated just about 2 hours later. Due to my husband's poor sperm quality, the ONLY chance for a natural pregnancy is on the day of ovulation.

I wasn't really worried about it and didn't even think much about it. But in the evening around 9 PM, my little daughter came downstairs asking when her brother or sister was going to be born. We hadn't told her anything at all.

Since March 3, I've been waking up early every morning (5:30 AM) and spontaneously started cleaning. I did the same thing during Nadine's pregnancy, just 2 days after conception. Yesterday I had some mild cramps in my stomach, and this morning I had a little pink discharge, and today two "threads" of old brown. I was at a gathering for religious women today, and several ladies I don't know congratulated me. One woman I also didn't know even prayed, asking if God would let the baby in my womb grow. I really feel pregnant myself.

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  1. MammieValentijn #2

    I don't see why you'd be bothered

    And hope you're pregnant! The only certainty you have is a positive test or blood test.
    Let us know then, good luck
  2. Madelene #3

    "Schockend" is quite a strong word.
    I also don't see why you'd be shocked?
    Everyone has their own beliefs, and if that's how it feels for you, why not? That's something very personal.
    I have a niece who used to pray for a sister. It was almost impossible, really. Her mother, my aunt, was already in menopause according to the doctor, and she also had trouble getting pregnant. My niece wasn't very fertile herself.
    But 16 years later, after my niece was born, she got pregnant again and had a little sister. Her wish came true. The doctor called it a "mistake" (medically speaking).
    But for my niece, it was a miracle that came true because she prayed for it.
    Well, many people thought that sounded crazy.
    But it was a special coincidence.
    It's all about how you look at it.
    Greetings, Madelene
  3. Muus86 #4

    Hi there,
    I hope for you that you are pregnant. Personally, I think you can only be sure after a positive test. If you really want to feel and notice things when you're pregnant, you'll know. I think I'm too down-to-earth for your story. But you're not crazy because you're free to believe what you want. Still, I'd advise you to protect yourself from disappointment. Just take a test, then you'll be sure.
  4. m@ma2015 started this #5

    I tested yesterday and it's positive
  5. Figaroa #6

    Hi Mama 2015

    God takes care of everyone, and when the time is right, it will be. I also had my brother after praying a lot.

    I wish you a beautiful pregnancy.
  6. Esra♡♥ #7

    Hi mama2015.

    May God bless you with a safe and healthy pregnancy and a faithful little one. Congratulations!!

    Xx
  7. Jongmama #8

    You're not annoying, no.

    Congratulations!

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