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What was important to you when choosing the right name?

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madelene
What was important to you when choosing your baby's name?
I was just curious. I have two girls myself and wanted a name for them that you don't hear often but still feels normal.
I want a third child and if I'm blessed with that, I'd like a name for the third one, for example along the lines of Jasmijn or Roos, so this time a well-known name but still classic.
Now I was wondering what was important to you when looking for the right name for your child.
Greetings, Madelene

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  1. ik wil geen lid meer zijn #2

    A name we find beautiful, short and strong. My daughter is called Joyce, which wasn't very common, although it was a well-known name. My son is called Mike, a very common name, but I thought it was cool and short. And for our third child: Chloë for a girl and Joey for a boy, both again short and strong.
  2. madelene started this #3

    That's lovely, cute names for your children.
    My husband also likes short names.
    Greetings, Madelene
  3. ik wil geen lid meer zijn #4

    Thanks, Madeleine!
    Funny thing is, my current boyfriend is also named Mike, just like me. Son
  4. Edith #5

    We want to name after (1st after my mother-in-law and 2nd after my father-in-law if it's a boy - if it's a girl, we still need to think about who, since my mom already has a granddaughter named after her), but with a fresh, modern name that's not too common (definitely not in the top 20). So far, everyone really likes the name of our little girl and finds it original, so that's already a success
  5. bkr900 #6

    Joyce, I've got that in my head too for the third one! Beautiful name with a beautiful meaning. For us, it's always important that it's a name everyone knows how to spell so the little one doesn't have to spell out their name their whole life; we find that really annoying ourselves. We also think it's important that it sounds good with the last name. So no ending with the sound that the last name starts with, and we give each child in the household their own initials. So not all the same first names and then getting mail and not knowing who it's for. We were also more drawn to the 'ordinary' Dutch names. Personally, I don't think all those exotic and experimental names suit someone with a Dutch-sounding last name like 'de Vries' or something similar. We now have two sons, both with names that apparently are in the top 20 or so, but not the 'trendy names'. Not consciously or anything, we just found them nice. No issues with double names yet and everyone knows how to spell and pronounce them. Plus, they're not in the top for nothing; almost everyone finds them nice names. Good luck with choosing!
  6. Kiko87 #7

    That it's a clear, easy-to-spell name. Not too modern and not too old-fashioned. One of our surnames starts with a K-sound, so we don't want the first name to start with a K-sound either. As for the rest, we don't know yet. I think we'll really start looking after the gender determination.
  7. madelene started this #8

    Hi ladies, nice to read your opinions. BKR 900 for that spelling is quite important, yes, because my youngest daughter has a unique, not very common name but still a regular one. It's just not a Dutch name, so people often pronounce it wrong, which can be annoying sometimes. Then I have to say no, not with the stress on the 'e' but just pronounce it as 'e'. I mean they often pronounce it with a long 'ee' sound while it shouldn't be pronounced that way, the second letter of her name. So yes, that's sometimes tricky. They do get it right afterwards, but whenever people hear her name for the first time, they pronounce it incorrectly, putting the stress in the wrong place. Greetings, Madelene
  8. madelene started this #9

    Our youngest daughter bears the name of my husband's sister. It wasn't chosen consciously in that way, but I thought it was such a beautiful and lovely name. I just had to nag him relentlessly to let her have this name because he absolutely didn't want to. He said she wouldn't have her own personality then. He doesn't like it when his daughter has the same name as his sister. He also doesn't like naming after family members.

    But I thought it was such a beautiful name and, fortunately, he eventually gave in. I said, "Fair is fair: for the oldest, you chose."

    Well, I thought it was beautiful too, of course, but he came up with the name for our oldest daughter.

    That was a not-so-common name back then, but now I hear it more and more often.

    Her name is Yara.

    Greetings, Madelene
  9. ik wil geen lid meer zijn #10

    The name Joyce is a very common name and a really nice one hihi
    But we're often asked how to spell it!
  10. Edith #11

    bkr900, oh yeah, those are also some considerations of ours, e.g. not having the same first initials in the family. So E. at the beginning is out anyway for nr 2
    I actually don't have a problem with all names in the top 20; some of those purely Dutch 'evergreens' could probably come in here (if we can name them after family members with them, because we like that). Then you know that in 20 years not everyone will be able to tell just by the name that your child was born around 2014 (or thereabouts). So no passing trend.
  11. bkr900 #12

    We had indeed read on a forum about people named Joyce that they often have to spell it that way.
    Yeah, I think... how else? I only know it as Joyce, plain and simple, right?

    I also find a somewhat timeless name quite nice, not those names that are hugely popular for three years and then disappear.
    The Noa's, Jayden's and Lynn's are popping up like mushrooms around here, but in ten years, no one will be called that anymore, I think... Then you're really one of the 2010s hype. No, I personally find that a pity. Although Jayden and Lynn are nice names in themselves, Noa is two-sided, and that's not so nice either, is it?
  12. madelene started this #13

    Joyce is a cheerful, beautiful girl's name, and it's timeless and always looks nice, I think.
    My husband thought that by choosing Yara as the name for our oldest daughter, we were giving her a unique, uncommon name, but apparently not, because I hear it more and more often now.
    I wanted two separate, uncommon names for them, but not too out there—like Butterfly or Storm, and those kinds of names. With all due respect, I don't find those beautiful.
    I also don't like fantasy names like Fay Bloom, but hey, everyone has their own taste.
    And now, as I hope to get pregnant with our third child, I'd actually like something familiar and classic, just to be different, since my other kids already have uncommon names.
    Best wishes, Madelene
  13. bkr900 #14

    My niece is indeed also called Yara, just like a girl in swimming lessons. I had to get used to it for a moment. But it is indeed a nice variant of the well-known Sara. Which I also still find lovely for a girl. I'm also pregnant with the third. Then there are fewer names left to choose from, I think. A part falls away because it looks too much like the names we already have, and a part because it deviates too much. Plus, we've already used our first and second choice, of course. I think we'll choose a name this time that deviates a bit from our previous choices. Because we already have two short boy names, otherwise you get a bit of the "quack quack quack" effect haha, and I don't want that. I wish you lots of success with choosing the name, it'll surely work out!
  14. madelene started this #15

    Hi bkr, I feel you! That’s exactly what I’m thinking too. When we’re having a third child, I actually want something completely different now, precisely because my youngest daughter has a unique foreign name that’s still easy to pronounce here.

    That’s exactly why I’d want to go for the complete opposite for a third child: a well-known, classic name.

    But what was very important to me (and luckily also to my husband) when choosing names for our daughters was that they should be easy to pronounce here. My husband is foreign and wanted a Dutch name, while I wanted something special, a name from his country, but still easy to pronounce here and sounding nice.

    He really wanted to name the youngest Lunapark, but I heard that name so often and didn’t find it original anymore, which was important to me: a unique name you don’t hear often.

    In the end, I got my way.

    But he says the name Lunapark still sits in his heart.

    He was very sad we didn’t name her that, but well, I’m happy with her name. It’s not a common name here, but it doesn’t sound very foreign either.

    Greetings, Madelene
  15. madelene started this #16

    Oops, what a silly mistake! I just read that Lunapark is making up its own words haha. I meant Luna.

    Greetings, Madelene
  16. madelene started this #17

    Congratulations on your pregnancy, bkr! I’m not yet pregnant with the third one, but I’m already preparing for a third little wonder.
    Greetings, Madelene
  17. bkr900 #18

    Thought it was a bit of a weird choice.. Lunapark haha, but indeed, I also like Luna!

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