New and uncertain

Enjoy the relationship you have with your partner right now... When a baby comes, a baby comes, and if not, it just wasn't meant to be.. You can't force having children unfortunately..
And sometimes it might be for the best too..

I've always gotten pregnant right away, but there's something that means I've had 2 miscarriages already and now I'm just squeezing my hands together hoping that number 3 will work out this time..

I'm glad you already have 2 healthy kids and they say that once you stop trying and accept it, it often works out..

I wish I could say I already had 2 running around.. Then I'd be blessed long ago..

But well, that's how it is..

Relax and it'll all work out for sure.

I think those clichés like "be glad you already have 2" and "once you get used to it, you'll be pregnant in no time" are really annoying. For someone who really wants another baby, it's just as frustrating and sad as it is for someone trying for the first time. Actually, for Wen-mv2, it feels like her first time again. That's how it feels to me. She has a new partner and her kids are already quite a bit older.

Wen-mv2, I totally relate to how you feel. We wanted a third child, one that would be biologically ours together. I had my IUD removed after almost two years. I also got pregnant quickly with the first two. Now it took 14 months before I was pregnant for the first time. (My whole story is on my page.) I believe that my IUD really did affect my cycle a lot. After it was removed, things were completely different. There's a period for coming off the pill, but not for the IUD. Still, I don't think this applies to everyone.

Also, the fact that you're a bit older now and have a different partner could play a role. That doesn't necessarily mean anything is wrong. Your hormonal balance is different now.

I know how hard this is, but give it time. You know from yourself that you're fertile; you're only on your third cycle, which is still very short. Talk about it, write down your feelings, but try not to do it too much. The more you focus on it, the harder it all becomes. I can't tell you exactly how to do that. Find distractions. But above all, give yourself time, and trust your own body.

So relatable! After the fertility shot, it took more than a year for me to get pregnant with our third. My boyfriend is 10 years younger, and it feels like our first to us now.
Although I already have 2 from a previous relationship.
Hope it won't take too much longer.

That's sad then.

A good book, a fun movie. Just chilling with friends. The household chores. Music. Those are things I used to do, especially when I was on the waiting bench.

Are you overdue?

Exciting!

Congratulations!!!