What would you recommend to me?

Hey Samantha,

I completely understand you, and as for your mother, she's absolutely right!

When I first tried to get pregnant, I was obsessed with it every day, and disappointed every month, which led to lots of arguments with my husband!

I was so rushed that I went to the gynecologist and explained to him that I'd been trying for a year with no result. I remember I went to the doctor on Feb 14, 2012. He did an internal ultrasound to check if everything was okay, and he said: "Ah, madam, you're ovulating, so definitely have sex today, and then every two days."

I did my "homework," and I thought, if it doesn't work again, then so be it. I didn't want to focus on it anymore; I was fed up.

A few weeks later, I felt like my period was coming again, and I thought, oh no, not again... and yeah, I thought, well, that's it then. Also, since I had an irregular cycle, I didn't really know when my period would come. Anyway, it was on the 5th attempt that I finally succeeded.

Now, I recently found out I'm pregnant again. My husband and I assumed it would take a few months again, and I had promised myself not to stress anymore! I didn't even hesitate for a second. After stopping the pill, I only had one period, and now I'm 5 weeks pregnant.

So yes, I think it really is psychological. The more you think about it, the longer it takes.

So, some advice I can give you: just have sex every two days after your period and focus on something else.

Good luck!

Greetings

Hi N. Coppola, thanks for your reply! Iga, I'll follow your advice and hopefully it'll be a hit soon It's nice to hear from someone else who's in the same boat as me, dealing with the same hows and whats. And congratulations on your pregnancy! I'll let you know here when it's a hit

Cheers!

That's gladly done, hoor.

Hopefully, you'll share some good news as soon as possible

Greetings