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for all pregnant mothers who smoke

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marinaGuest ·
Hi ladies, this is for all the women who are pregnant and would rather not smoke. I just want to say that I used to smoke 3 packs a day, but as soon as I found out I was pregnant, I quit right away. I won't deny that it was hard, but with the thought that my baby would be drinking tar and nicotine through my cigarette puffs. Because the tar and nicotine get into your baby's amniotic fluid, which they then drink. Yummy, drink, ugh.

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  1. marina started this #2

    And with the thought that my baby would choke and struggle with every breath I took from my cigarette, that was enough reason for me to quit. Especially when your baby is growing in the womb, getting bigger, and has little space, they can hardly escape your smoke. I saw some heart-wrenching videos of a baby in the womb of a mother who smoked. The baby moved as if having cramps with every breath, and from its movements, you could see how it struggled and couldn't escape because it was already so big. It was resisting by moving against the smoke. They filmed this to study how babies in the womb react to cigarettes. If you see it, you really have to turn away—it's so pitiful.
  2. marina started this #3

    amniotic fluid tastes gross with all that tar and nicotine in it, and your baby is taking sips of it. Just imagine a glass of water and me throwing some tar and nicotine into it, along with other carcinogens. You wouldn't drink that, would you? Your baby will, though. He can't grab another glass; he has no other clean drink, no choice. Pathetic, right? So, with this knowledge, I thought to myself, I'd be a terrible mother to my unborn child if I kept smoking. With every puff, your baby chokes a little and gets damaged. The worst thing is that he or she doesn't choose to take in all those carcinogens. You, as a smoking mother, make that choice for him because you just have to smoke. And before he's even grown up, you're giving him bad lungs, weak lungs at least, so he already has a much higher percentage chance of cancer in his adult life. Well, I would feel guilty as a mother, and so no matter how much I wanted it and how hard it was, I made the choice not to smoke for the baby in my belly. I can later say, for your health, I quit smoking and gave you clean amniotic fluid during your stay in my womb. Please remember this: if you're mature enough to choose to become a mother and have a child, then also be mature enough to give your child a good start, a healthy start in this world. Love, Marina
  3. marina started this #4

    this is not an attack this is only for your little ones love marina
  4. manuela Guest #5

    Hi Marina, I wanted to reply to this. It's written so clearly and beautifully, just as you put it. I was a smoking mom. I quit one week after I found out I was pregnant. I thought I didn't want my baby to smoke secondhand while he or she didn't choose that for themselves. I felt incredibly guilty and was afraid of damaging his lungs before he was even born, and worried that if he developed asthma or a weak heart as an adult, it would be my fault. It's good that you're writing about this. I did start smoking again right after my son was born, but I didn't smoke much anymore and got so dizzy that I just stopped smoking altogether. So I don't smoke anymore. I wondered what if my baby got as dizzy in my womb as I do from a cigarette. Terrible. I just wanted to share this. Greetings, Manuela.
  5. irene Guest #6

    Hi Manuela, your explanation about smoking and the harm it causes made me realize I should quit. I'm now 4 months pregnant and read this message yesterday—I couldn't hold it in anymore; I got nauseous just thinking about it, but I kept smoking anyway. After reading your post, I just had to stop. I've already thrown away my pack of cigarettes. I don't want to harm my baby with my smoking. I really feel much better and healthier now, and the nausea from the cigarettes is gone. Best regards, Ierene
  6. ierene Guest #7

    Sorry for the quick typing! I meant that I don't want my baby to feel bad because of my cigarettes. I already feel suffocated just imagining my baby choking on my smoke.
  7. manuela Guest #8

    That's nice! Are there more mothers who have quit smoking because of the pregnancy?

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