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I don't know anymore for now.

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Samirah25
Hi ladies,
I'm a bit confused and don't really understand anymore. Here's my story:
I stopped taking the pill last May when my partner and I decided we wanted to get pregnant.
There were many disappointments because it just didn't work out.
On April 2nd, I finally got a positive test, so happy and joyful.
Unfortunately, on April 23rd, I had a miscarriage and on May 2nd, I had a D&C.
Still, we want to try again.

My cycle is 25 days and usually lasts 5/6 days.
The apps I use on my phone indicate that my ovulation was on June 7th, so my partner and I had quite a bit of 'action' two days before, the day itself, and one day after.
Now I looked at several sites yesterday and they all gave different results.
Several said my ovulation was on June 4th.
So my question is... did it work out?
I really don't understand anything anymore.

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  1. Samirah25 started this #2

    Sorry, I forgot to mention that I had my period from May 24th to May 29th, which was 3 weeks after the curettage.

  2. lief Guest #3

    Personally, I don't keep track of my ovulation. I'm already driving myself crazy trying to get pregnant. If I also have to calculate when it's going to happen, my husband doesn't want that either.

  3. kruimel #4

    I’d just leave those apps alone and start tracking your temperature or using ovulation test strips. Every cycle is different, so don’t rely too much on what your phone says and trust the "visible signs" that ovulation has occurred more.

    And whether it worked out or not, you’ll never know until you take a test. You’ve already spent almost a year trying to get pregnant, so anything is possible! I’m hoping it’s a success right away, especially after something as tough as a miscarriage, but the only one who can give you confirmation is a pregnancy test!

    Good luck Xkruimel

  4. Samirah25 started this #5

    Thanks, Kruimel.
    Yeah, I think it’s better not to rely on those apps anymore.
    Although, they’ve always been right so far.. even with my previous pregnancy.

  5. kruimel #6

    Hihi it definitely helps that you have a very regular cycle, so an app calculation is reliable 9 out of 10 times. But your ovulation can still happen earlier or later than expected, and if you didn't plan sex around that, it's naturally a bit trickier..
    If I have it right, can you test on June 18th or not?
    Curious and of course hoping for you

    xKruimel

  6. Samirah25 started this #7

    Hihi, it's true that having a very regular cycle helps, so an app calculation is reliable 9 out of 10 times. But ovulation can still happen earlier or later than expected, and if you didn't plan sex around that, it's naturally a bit trickier..
    If I've got it right, can you test on June 18th?
    I'm curious and of course hope for you

    xKruimel

    Yes, you're right.
    I can indeed test on the 18th.
    I'm curious haha, I'm already getting nervous about it.
    It's really exciting.. of course because I want to be (pregnant) again so badly, but also because if I am, I hope everything will be okay.

    Xxx

  7. kruimel #8

    Yes girl, I'd also love nothing more than to be pregnant..
    It's the 18th soon then you'll know more
    Good luck with the waiting!
    xCrumb

  8. Samirah25 started this #9

    Yes girl, I’d also love nothing more than to be pregnant..
    It’s the 18th then you’ll know more
    Good luck with the waiting!
    xKruimel
    kruimel


    Thanks girl.
    Good luck to you too and I’ll let you know when the time comes.

    Xx

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