Forum Fertility

pregnant or not

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kruimel
I’d take a test.. Can’t hurt. You’re not on the pill either, judging by your irregular cycles, right? And if you’re a week late with a 28-day cycle, you’d also be late with a 32-day cycle..
It could also be that you’re not getting your period because you’re stressed, or because you are/aren’t pregnant from the colleague.
Good luck!

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  1. M #2

    It's indeed a tough situation. The only thing you can do is take a pregnancy test. If it's negative and you still haven't gotten your period a week later, you can take another one. And if you are pregnant, you can only hope that it's from your boyfriend and not your colleague...
    If you had a small spotting in between, that could have been implantation bleeding, but it doesn't have to be.
    I hear a lot of positive feedback about the Kruidvat test 2 for 5 euros. I've always used Clear Blue digital and the Kruidvat with the purple cap. I have very good experiences with those.
    Wishing you lots of success and let me know if you've taken a test??

    Greetings, Mamavan2

  2. anoniem Guest #3

    The problem is that it can't be my man's because he had sterilization done 5 years ago. I thought the chance was small that I'd be pregnant since he didn't cum inside me (sorry for the details), but he insists he did, just orally (which I spat out). Now I've started doubting myself. Is the chance small or not?

  3. M #4

    The chances are just as big. You're dealing with premenstrual symptoms. Going to church to pray won't help. But whatever your little one says, it could also be that your period is delayed due to stress. If you take a test and it's negative, you might get your period within a few days. May I ask what's holding you back from taking a test? The facts won't change, and then you'll have clarity. If it turns out you are pregnant, you can think about how to handle it in the future. And if it turns out you're not pregnant, you can relax.

  4. M #5

    Oh yeah, maybe something weird, but you said your husband got help 5 years ago. Could it be that you're now at the age where you might be entering menopause?

  5. kruimel started this #6

    I'd say the chance is there, but it's small. But the only way to find out is to take a pregnancy test! Good luck

  6. anoniem Guest #7

    hi everyone

    no, i'm not in perimenopause, i'm still in my early thirties

    i know it all sounds silly and that i should just take a test
    i just hope i'll get my period anyway and that i've been worrying over nothing
    never thought you could be so pregnant, some say no, others say yes
    waiting a little longer, if i don't get them on friday i'll take a test, hope i'm mistaken somewhere

  7. Let #8

    The girls here have already given you all the tips, so I can only wish you success.

  8. anoniem Guest #9

    Hi everyone,

    Thanks everyone for the advice. It's been exactly a month since the miscarriage and there's no sign of hell (period) at all. It was so nauseous and I had no appetite. I'm testing tomorrow morning because I can't take it anymore. Hopefully they'll come at least a bit late and it was just stress about nothing.

  9. M #10

    Go for it, fingers crossed for tomorrow. Let us know?

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