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miscarriage

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cindymerlier
Sorry folks, but I just had to share this!! I was supposed to be 11 weeks pregnant today and suddenly started bleeding. Not a lot, but I was worried, so I went straight to the ER for an ultrasound. It turned out our little miracle had already passed away at 8 weeks!! Now I have to wait for heavy bleeding and lots of pain, and if that doesn't happen, I'll go to the hospital on Tuesday to have it cleared out from inside!! Pff, it's so hard to know it's still in my belly but that it's dead!! I'm holding it together for now, but I don't know how long I can keep this up. Anyway, we're not giving up and will try again right away because we wanted this so badly!! Hopefully it'll work out quickly. Last time it took 2 months, but yeah, it might take longer this time. Hopefully not, and we can enjoy it again soon. I'll probably be twice as scared, I think!!

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  1. Mommy-Of-Nyana #2

    Oh girl, that's so frustrating!!
    Such a bummer for you both! Hopefully everything will sort itself out and you won't have to go back to the hospital.
    It's nice that you want to get back to things as soon as possible, but first take care of yourself, okay, girl!

    Take good care of yourself and lots of strength!!!
    Love

  2. cindymerlier started this #3

    Yeah, we can't do anything else and really want a baby, and it should work out this time instead of ending badly again. But better now at the beginning than when you're further along!! It's tough but we have to get through it!! Thanks

  3. Karin #4

    hey....
    so sorry, dear.... lots of strength! and take it easy! big hug!

  4. Anonymous #5

    Oh no
    Strength...

    Love, Sandra

  5. RJ #6

    Hi Cindy, sending you lots of strength as you process this loss. I hope your body bounces back quickly. I found it really hard to know you were still carrying it. I got pregnant right away after my miscarriage—I hear that’s pretty common—so don’t give up when you’re ready again. I hope you’ll be pregnant again soon. Love, RJ

  6. cindymerlier started this #7

    Thank you so much everyone, tomorrow I have to be at the hospital by 9am for a D&C!! I'll be glad when it's over so we can start again!! We're longing for a baby so much!! And I'm hopeful because I've read that most women are pregnant again after 1 or 2 months, so hopefully it'll be the same for us. Fingers crossed!

  7. Mommy-Of-Nyana #8

    Wishing you lots of success tomorrow, girl!
    And lots of strength too!
    Hopefully, you'll be back in no time and can enjoy it again.
    Lots of love

  8. Karin #9

    Yeah, I get that you want to have it behind you! I wish you both lots of strength! And I hope your dream comes true soon! Big hug and I'll be thinking of you tomorrow...
    Love, Karin.

  9. onsmeutje Guest #10

    Hey, that's so sad for you both. I understand how you feel. We went through the same thing. I would have been 12 weeks now. We had what you're going through right now with the holidays. For me, it stopped at 6 weeks and 4 days. But I thought I could get over it easily, but it really hit hard, especially emotionally. We're trying again because we can handle it together. Talk a lot with each other. Strength for the coming time.

  10. Kimpyxb #11

    Hey girl, so sorry to hear that. How are you doing now? Hopefully, you'll be able to get pregnant again soon.

    Love,

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