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Birth story Mika

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Debje
Last Tuesday morning I gave birth to Mika. Here’s my birth story. Last Monday afternoon at 4:30 I went to the midwife with my partner. Everything was fine, nothing to worry about. We went home, had a nice meal and showered on time. At 9:30 I felt a little prick in my belly that wasn’t painful at all, and ten seconds later it was drip drip drip. I told my partner something had popped. My waters broke. And it kept flowing, really! I went to the toilet, changed into fresh clothes and underwear, but it wouldn’t stop. As soon as I got up from the toilet, it started flowing again. Anyway, still no contractions or anything. The midwife had visited around 10:45 and advised going to bed early, which was the plan. Once in bed, the contractions started. And don’t ask how! Pff.. that was intense! I found it awful, since the contractions lasted 40 to 50 seconds with only 30 seconds in between. I held out for two hours and called the midwife. She came over with a lot of pain and effort. I was 3 cm dilated and she said she’d come back the next morning. I really couldn’t hold out anymore, so I decided to go to the hospital for pain relief. I felt a bit weak about it, since I’d had an uncomplicated pregnancy and only had two hours of contractions. I thought, what must those women go through who are in labor for hours and hours. In the end, it was a 20-minute drive to the hospital, and we were on the delivery ward at 4:15. I still had to pee on the toilet, and then the midwife asked if I had an urge to push. I had no idea. Quickly onto the bed to check how many cm dilated I was. I was already 9 cm! Pff, that was fast! From 3 to 9 in twenty minutes! Then just a little while longer and I could start pushing! I had pushing contractions for 35 minutes, and at 5:10 Mika was born. Unfortunately, I still had to go to the OR to be stitched up with an epidural. In the end, I’m glad I went to the hospital and I realize my contractions weren’t normal but were too intense right away. All in all, I’m very happy with this fast birth and look back on it as a success!

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  1. Kelly #2

    What a great story to read! That was quite fast going from 3 to 9 cm! But I can imagine it's nice that everything went so quickly afterward!
    And now getting some rest and enjoying it?
  2. Mommy-Of-Nyana #3

    woooow debje, such a quick delivery! every woman's dream!
    you did the right thing going to the hospital after all!
    once again, big congrats on your little boy!
    and now enjoy your little guy!!

    Love!!
  3. Kelly #4

    What a great story to read! That went by so fast, from 3 to 9 cm! But I can imagine it's nice that everything was over so quickly afterward!
    Now rest well and enjoy!
  4. Olivia-Anna #5

    Lovely to read!!
    No wonder your contractions were intense with such a fast dilation!!
    And you don't need to feel ashamed about the pain relief,
    everyone's experience is different, even if you have a high pain tolerance, that doesn't mean everything..
    As long as you got through the birth well and you clearly succeeded!

    Congratulations! You've earned your diploma!
    Enjoy and try to hold onto that "pink cloud feeling" for as long as possible!!
    Love, Olivia!
  5. Debje started this #6

    Yes, it all happened really fast indeed.. Looking back, I was actually glad about that So the epidural wasn't needed anymore.. Yeah, after the birth.. Mika is doing really well! And growing fast! At night he still has one bottle, and otherwise we can sleep in nicely!
  6. * #7

    @Debje,
    What a story, girl.. And that was a contraction storm.. You held up super well, seriously.. Glad that Mika is doing so well, you must be so proud.. And, how is your partner doing? Is he helping you out well?

    Love, Ju
  7. Debje started this #8

    @ ju
    Yeah, looking back I was actually glad about it I think... Would totally do it again.. Yeah my boyfriend Mark is really such a loving dad and I didn't expect him to do so well! Only this morning after being home for 2 weeks he had to go back to work It's not that bad per se.. but he's an international truck driver so he won't be home again until Friday.. That goodbye was really hard and heavy.. I've never seen him so sad! And I'm also afraid he won't be able to handle it.. But well we'll have to wait and see... How are you and your boyfriend doing? I had read some stuff already but don't know anything else...
    Love
  8. lola Guest #9

    how was it with those contractions?
  9. line Guest #10

    how was it with Mika's contractions?
  10. D.C.B & G Love♥♥♥♥ #11

    Gosh... that went fast haha. Indeed, a dream for every woman.
    I have a son of 6 myself and that birth was like a nightmare.
    Friday, May 25, 2007, early morning at 5 o'clock I really had to go to the toilet, I thought, but I could also stay sitting... because my waters broke and no contractions yet... I called the midwife and if I would get contractions we had to call back immediately. Half an hour later it started, so I called again.
    By 8 o'clock she would come by for a quick look to see how it was going. According to her it was good, because I had 1 cm dilation.
    Friday afternoon at 5 o'clock I still had only 1 cm dilation, but by then already 10 hours in the middle of contractions. Until my husband said if you don't send her to the hospital now I'm going to take her there myself... this can't go on any longer.
    Once there I got an epidural at 7 o'clock and oxytocin pfff. Then finally at half past 1 at night 10 cm dilation and I could push, luckily, but that took and took... until they said at half past 2 that this can't go on any longer and then intervened with an episiotomy and vacuum pump, finally, because I was completely exhausted and super happy of course that our son was finally here 3 weeks premature 3680 grams and 50 cm.
    Now I'm pregnant with the 2nd and really hope it goes easier than the 1st.
  11. Debje started this #12

    I hope so too for you.. pff I don't even want to think about being in there for so long... But yeah, then the contractions don't start so intensely right away either! When is your due date?
  12. irma Guest #13

    My birth story is:
    Our little boy Dean is already 2 weeks old now.

    At 02:00 my waters broke. The whole bed and everything was wet. I didn't know whether to sit or stand, it felt really intense. I wasn't allowed to stand because our little one hadn't engaged completely. The midwife came right away.
    But our boy had pooped in the amniotic fluid, so I was transferred to the OB/GYN, unfortunately.
    Once in the hospital, the contractions started fairly quickly.
    The 8 and 9 cm stages were the hardest, with such an urge to push.
    Otherwise, I managed well with a warm shower and a back massage from my partner.
    At 09:10 I was finally allowed to push, and at 09:33 our son was born. There was a tear, actually, but it was very fast for a first baby without pain relief. And honestly, once the birth was over, you forget everything. I didn't experience it as traumatic at all.
  13. D.C.B & G Love♥♥♥♥ #14

    Oct 12 I was out of the game!!.....the contractions really came every 2 to 3 minutes pffff.

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