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So super impatient

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Anoniem92
Hi, I'm not really sure where to put this, so I thought I'd just start a new topic.
I was wondering how much I'm the only one whose desire for pregnancy occasionally limits her functioning.
Especially like now, while I'm on the waiting bench. Around/on my period, even though I had promised myself not to get so involved with it this month.
In previous cycles I always felt something, I've gone through quite a few tests (because of that I accidentally have none at home now). But now I don't really feel anything, which is different from previous months. No signs of an impending period.
Lacking better options, I did an ovulation test, light positive. But that usually stays that way, so it didn't help me much. I secretly hoped it would go dark, that would give me hope for a pregnancy test. (With my daughter it was like that too, and then a really good pregnancy test)
Going shopping tomorrow, so I'll stop by Kruidvat for new tests, or maybe I won't need them anymore...

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  1. Florine Guest #2

    Hi!
    I totally get you. I find the waiting weeks the worst too. It feels like those two weeks will last forever. Every day I’m looking for symptoms.
    I also underestimated the emotional impact.
    I really relate to your feeling of being unable to think of anything else.
    Hope you get a positive test soon
  2. Anoniem92 started this #3

    Hi Florine, thanks for your reply. Sometimes I really feel like I'm the only one going crazy from waiting. And then you try to keep yourself in check... I don't even think about it, and if I'm overdue, I'll just take a test once, and then you end up doing a test every day anyway. Or you try to put it off, and meanwhile you're scouring the entire internet, looking for symptoms that might mean something. Knowing that most complaints could just as easily be premenstrual or related to what you've eaten, a short night's sleep, etc.
    Which round are you on?
  3. Joyce2021 #4

    I totally get you, you really want that positive test and waiting just takes so long.. I'm pregnant for the 3rd time myself. All three times in round 1. I'm very grateful for this, because it's not a given. What stands out is that all three times I immediately thought, I'm pregnant, I'll get that test. 3x flu-like feeling and 3x a clear blue vein visible on my chest. Try making an agreement with yourself, I only test from a certain cycle day. That will give you more peace of mind I hope you'll have a positive test in your hands soon!

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