Hi Sipi, okay, indeed, it's intense. Glad that's all behind you now and you can enjoy your two big ones! The age gap can also be super nice. One takes care of (comes to) the other.
We're indeed busy with the first one; we've already experienced some things (pregnancy wasn't planned) but then miscarriage had to be... but now officially, we've only really been consciously trying for the first month. So for now, I'm just being patient. Although, when I want something, it usually just happens... but well, I've seen enough that it doesn't work like that.
Those are the less pleasant messages, of course! I get that too—if I want something, it has to happen, right? Well, with stuff like that, we don’t really have a say, haha. Wishing you lots of success and keep practicing; just doing it is already awesome!