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Jealousy towards pregnant women

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Mama2B
Hi ladies,
I’m going through a KID process for the second time. Getting pregnant isn’t happening as quickly as hoped. It’s tough dealing with the disappointment every time it doesn’t work out. I had a previous process that unfortunately ended in an ectopic pregnancy.
Now here’s the thing: everyone around me seems to get pregnant effortlessly. And no matter how much I wish it for others, I want it most for myself. I’m insanely jealous.
How do you deal with this envy? Is it relatable? What can I do to develop a more positive mindset?
Thanks for thinking along with me.

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  1. stff48 #2

    Hey!
    I totally get you... I'm going through the KID process for the first time, and now that everything feels more intense, I find myself having a harder time with pregnant women around me.
    I'm trying to find support here on this forum, but I notice there aren't many people going through this same process?
    Have you already had a baby through this process or not?

  2. Anonymous Guest #3

    Hi, no unfortunately not yet. I've only had a few attempts so far. In my previous journey, it worked after more than 9 inseminations, and then it went wrong... And you?

  3. stff48 #4

    No, I'm just starting now... I have to call on Tuesday to see if our reed mats are there or not. So either this month or next month...
    I feel so unsure about all this.

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