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When were you pregnant after a miscarriage?
Joy
Child 2: 1 year.
Child 3: 1 round - mk - 5 rounds and now pregnant again
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Sofie #2
That's so hard to go through, sending you lots of strength! Unfortunately, it took longer for me, but I have no idea what the exact cause was.
1st pregnancy: round 2
2nd pregnancy: round 1
3rd pregnancy: round 1, miscarriage after 12 weeks
4th (current) pregnancy: round 6 -
stéfanie #3
For me:
1st: 2 rounds when I had a miscarriage at 9w5d and after the miscarriage 1 round and now 15w pregnant.
Lots of strength and success! -
kirstnn #4
First of all, lots of strength!
I had 2 miscarriages after 7 months, both ending in a blighted ovum/missed abortion. After the second one, I got pregnant again 2 months later and this time it went well! Now I have a little boy of almost 2. -
Moedertjuh #5
First round after my miscarriage, I'm pregnant again. It took 4 weeks for me to ovulate again.
That's really tough for you to have gone through that. I hope it works out and you're pregnant again soon. -
Merel Guest #6
Still, 2 ladies who got pregnant shortly after their miscarriage! Were you not extremely anxious during the first 12 weeks?
It's really nice that it worked out so quickly again. -
roosje #7
Hi Merel,
It really does depend from person to person...
Here’s a less positive story: when I stopped the pill in May/June 2017, I got pregnant in the first round. Unfortunately, it didn’t work out at 6/7 weeks, and since then, I haven’t been able to get pregnant again. Meanwhile, it’s been two and a half years.
I understand your concern; I was also really scared that it would go wrong again if it worked out... -
Ilona36 #8
I had a miscarriage in June. Still not pregnant, unfortunately. -
Orchidea #9
I had a miscarriage in March 2019, and it's been almost 9 months now, and I'm still not pregnant.
So it really varies when you'll get pregnant again. -
Amoxiclav #10
Had a miscarriage in August, got a positive test on October 15th, and it seems to be going well this time.. -
Merel Guest #11
Pff, ladies. I can't make heads or tails of it again
One is pregnant again while the other is already a year further..
Well, there's nothing you can do about it. So frustrating.. -
stéfanie #12
That fear is definitely there, even after the 12 weeks, -
Amoxiclav #13
Sure! Still scared every day here.. -
Merel Guest #14
@Stefanie: I totally get why you're still holding onto that fear. Once you've had a miscarriage, the days of carefree pregnancy are definitely over.
It's so unfair. Some women easily have 4 healthy kids, while others spend years trying and it still doesn't work out. When I was younger, I never really stopped to think about how special it is to have a healthy baby. I wonder if I'll ever experience that again. I'm 34 and not exactly young anymore -
Moedertjuh #15
No, I didn't really have that fear. With that previous miscarriage, I felt like I wasn't pregnant anymore right after the bleeding started. With my last pregnancy, I also had a light bleed at 12 dpo and still felt pregnant. I did get an ultrasound at 6 weeks and everything was fine. I've had 4 pregnancies, one of which ended early. It's not nice, but I can still count myself lucky. If you keep having that kind of bad luck, I imagine it's much harder not to worry. -
deb95 #16
Here’s a success story. It took us 2 years for the first one; we were just about to start the medical process when I found out I was pregnant.
With the second, I got pregnant after 3 months, but it ended in a miscarriage. Then, after 2 months, I was pregnant again and had another miscarriage. The following month, I got pregnant again and this time it stuck. Last month, we gave birth to our little girl. So, each time, I got pregnant faster.
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