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MimoesGuest ·
Dear Brabbels members,
I wasn't sure which section to put this story in. Hence the confession corner. Especially because what's happening to me right now isn't very nice of me. But I'm pulling my hair out. I also hope that answers are given with as little judgment as possible.
HPV was diagnosed 5 months ago. So I was spotting in between. I thought my last period was on July 4th. But although it lasted only 3 days, I only had to use 1 tampon. The rest was more discharge than actual bleeding. But it was really just a bit too much for implantation. Plus, I couldn't have had that because I hadn't had sex a month and a half before.
But on July 4th itself, I did have sex (the reason I started spotting, the guy is somewhat big-built and that happens more often with him) unprotected.
But on July 8th I did it unprotected too, but "stopped before the end". On July 12th I did it unprotected again, and on July 13th I took the morning-after pill.
July 21st again unprotected but he didn't cum?
Today, July 28th, I already have a positive test. The line is so light pink, but it's definitely positive. Because I compared it with images from Google where it was positive for others too.
(I don't use contraception. I'm 32. For 6 years I've been off contraception. HPV diagnosed. Irregular cycle. I always keep it neat so for 5 years it went well with having sex in this natural way, I know an accident is in a small corner)
My question is.. When would the conception have been? And my confession shame: the young man on July 4th was someone else than the other dates.
So just for the calculation a summary:
July 4th unprotected sex and 3 days of bleeding.
July 8th unprotected sex
July 12th unprotected sex
July 13th morning-after pill
(according to the MAYA app I had my fertile days from July 18th to 20th)
July 21st unprotected sex.
July 28th light positive test.
Thanks in advance for the answers.
If that bleeding wasn't a period, I might be pregnant from the guy on July 4th. But then I should have a thick positive test by now, right? I don't understand any of the calculations or my cycle :-(
(I'm now a guest, but my question is sincerely serious)
I wasn't sure which section to put this story in. Hence the confession corner. Especially because what's happening to me right now isn't very nice of me. But I'm pulling my hair out. I also hope that answers are given with as little judgment as possible.
HPV was diagnosed 5 months ago. So I was spotting in between. I thought my last period was on July 4th. But although it lasted only 3 days, I only had to use 1 tampon. The rest was more discharge than actual bleeding. But it was really just a bit too much for implantation. Plus, I couldn't have had that because I hadn't had sex a month and a half before.
But on July 4th itself, I did have sex (the reason I started spotting, the guy is somewhat big-built and that happens more often with him) unprotected.
But on July 8th I did it unprotected too, but "stopped before the end". On July 12th I did it unprotected again, and on July 13th I took the morning-after pill.
July 21st again unprotected but he didn't cum?
Today, July 28th, I already have a positive test. The line is so light pink, but it's definitely positive. Because I compared it with images from Google where it was positive for others too.
(I don't use contraception. I'm 32. For 6 years I've been off contraception. HPV diagnosed. Irregular cycle. I always keep it neat so for 5 years it went well with having sex in this natural way, I know an accident is in a small corner)
My question is.. When would the conception have been? And my confession shame: the young man on July 4th was someone else than the other dates.
So just for the calculation a summary:
July 4th unprotected sex and 3 days of bleeding.
July 8th unprotected sex
July 12th unprotected sex
July 13th morning-after pill
(according to the MAYA app I had my fertile days from July 18th to 20th)
July 21st unprotected sex.
July 28th light positive test.
Thanks in advance for the answers.
If that bleeding wasn't a period, I might be pregnant from the guy on July 4th. But then I should have a thick positive test by now, right? I don't understand any of the calculations or my cycle :-(
(I'm now a guest, but my question is sincerely serious)
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floydi #2
Hi there,
No need to feel ashamed about it, in my opinion. I’d guess you’re pregnant from the “act” on July 21st. Right after your fertile period according to the app. Now, 8 days later, implantation could have occurred, and you might have a light positive test. That’s my guess.
Anyway, congratulations! I hope a pregnancy is desired, even if it wasn’t planned.
Greetings,
Floydi -
Anonymous Guest #3
Hi! I also think it's the 21st, but is that a different guy than the one from the 13th? And if you have an irregular cycle and different men, why not use a different form of contraception if you don't want to use a condom? An IUD isn't foolproof either and sometimes doesn't work. Would you be happy if you were really pregnant? -
Mimoes started this #4
Hey dears,
It's so nice that you all responded. No, there were only 2 different guys. One of them, the one from July 4th, was a one-time thing.
The other guy is actually the one I really want to grow old with. What happened in between doesn't really matter right now. I just bought a digital test and it also says 1 to 2 weeks pregnant.
So that makes it unlikely that I'm pregnant from the guy on July 4th. Even if his sperm survived for up to 8 days, it wouldn't match up with implantation and the duration of pregnancy.
I think either the morning-after pill didn't work, or what you guys are saying. The 21st probably happened. Meaning I had just ovulated. So that pill didn't work.
I can't share too many details here, of course. It would absolutely be welcome if it's from that one person. -
Mona #5
Hi there,
Just wondering how you're doing and if you've got any more clarity yet? -
Puck #6
How's it going? Probably TS has picked up another std by now... I don't understand why women in this day and age still mess around with their bodies. And with the body of the man you say you want to grow old happily with.
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