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Getting pregnant

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TamsteGuest ·
Hey, I'm new here. We'd like to get pregnant but we have a bit of a problem: during my fertile days, my boyfriend has trouble reaching orgasm. We don't know how to handle this—should we be worried?

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  1. Anne #2

    Hey,
    Just started or been trying for a while now. Honestly, I didn’t tell my boyfriend when my ovulation was. We just did it throughout the month and he didn’t know exactly when, to avoid that pressure feeling. Well, it helps that my man doesn’t pay attention to my cycle either He also didn’t hold back at all, for example when I was on my period. But anyway, maybe you could agree on that? Just have fun, don’t overthink it and you don’t say anything about when your ovulation is
    I never really understood how my man didn’t notice, fertile mucus really makes a difference I think. Maybe someone else has tips for you
    Oh yeah, if you haven’t been trying for long, I think it’ll get better soon
  2. Mamatobe Guest #3

    Indeed, saying nothing about your cycle seems like the best approach. My husband didn't really pay attention to that either, and he often forgot when I was ovulating, so that's handy, hehe!

    Does sex not work at all, or can he just not climax? And if so, can he not climax at all, or maybe he can if you "help" him, so to speak? Another option could be that you collect the sperm and insert it yourself (at-home insemination)?

    @Anne, does it make such a big difference for you whether you have fertile mucus or just a lot of desire at other times in your cycle? My husband doesn't really notice that either!

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