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Amélie
My husband and I had decided to have a third child, but after failed attempts with the first one, he didn't want to try anymore. Now he always says, "we'll see later," but the problem is that I want it, and because of the big disappointment, I don't know what I want anymore. And I don't want to wait any longer; I'm 32 and don't want to be pregnant later than when I'm 35. But now it's like, "Do I even want a third child later?"
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Falca #2
Maybe take the pressure off him by just having unprotected sex without making it a "must" on your fertile days. Let it be more relaxed and try this for a year first. Only get a test if you notice you're overdue.
Maybe he's feeling performance pressure. Talk to him about whether this could be an option—you never know how long it'll take to get pregnant. -
Amélie started this #3
Yeah, now we're using condoms because I stopped taking the pill in July. We'll see later, but we hope he won't wait too long because I'm afraid I won't want to anymore. But he definitely wants to; he just doesn't know when it's the best time for me. -
Merel #4
Condoms, bah! I'd just leave it to nature like I said before. -
Amélie started this #5
Yeah, I know he’s not doing it yet, but he wants to wait, so I can’t really say much. Otherwise, it’ll be “nothing more,” hehe. -
Amélie started this #6
He doesn't like doing it with that, I meant to say.
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