Baby wish
Surrogacy
M&J
What started as a dream that many have to start a family now seems like a dead end. Over the course of 7 years we’ve tried everything: all possible tests, various hormones, unpleasant tests in 4 hospitals in the Netherlands and abroad. And also a huge range of acupuncture, Chinese medicine, diets, osteopathy, healing, name it, I’ve done it and I’m exhausted.
Fortunately, we were able to continue with regular IUI and IVF treatments, each time with beautiful promising embryos. But it turned out that my uterus doesn’t look as it should and the embryo really has no chance to implant: 28 beautiful embryos we flushed down the toilet, with not a single day of pregnancy. Something that ethically no longer feels responsible. The only option left is that we find an angel who would carry our child for us. That’s not straightforward and is a pretty big ask, but doctors agree that with our situation we might still qualify.
Those in our immediate area who have offered are unfortunately not eligible due to complications in a previous pregnancy, and we’re running into many rules that make it difficult to shout our wish from the rooftops. If anyone is willing to help us or can give tips on how to move forward, please contact us. A surrogate is our only option. We’ve been going down this dead-end road for so long, maybe there’s a miracle that wants to offer us a way out.
We look forward to your response, love M&J
[email protected]
Fortunately, we were able to continue with regular IUI and IVF treatments, each time with beautiful promising embryos. But it turned out that my uterus doesn’t look as it should and the embryo really has no chance to implant: 28 beautiful embryos we flushed down the toilet, with not a single day of pregnancy. Something that ethically no longer feels responsible. The only option left is that we find an angel who would carry our child for us. That’s not straightforward and is a pretty big ask, but doctors agree that with our situation we might still qualify.
Those in our immediate area who have offered are unfortunately not eligible due to complications in a previous pregnancy, and we’re running into many rules that make it difficult to shout our wish from the rooftops. If anyone is willing to help us or can give tips on how to move forward, please contact us. A surrogate is our only option. We’ve been going down this dead-end road for so long, maybe there’s a miracle that wants to offer us a way out.
We look forward to your response, love M&J
[email protected]
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We're still looking for a surrogate mother and are willing to offer quite a bit for it. We've been in a relationship for over 18 years, have a nice house, and a good income. It seems very obvious to us that we could form a lovely family, but we can also completely understand how important this is for a surrogate mother—you don't just bring a child into the world lightly, and we know that all too well. We also fully understand that this is a big responsibility for you, and we'll naturally cover all costs, etc.
We still hope that a kind-hearted woman might consider this.
If you'd like to respond, the email address is: [email protected]
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