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Feelings for my ex again...
MamaVanJordanEnMacy
Hey proud moms.
I'm in a dilemma... I'm expecting my third baby, but I've broken up with his father... (too much info). Now, my ex, the father of my two daughters, comes by regularly (4/5 times a week) to help me where I need help.. It's all very nice and kind, but I notice I'm getting feelings for him again..
My ex and I broke up back then because things weren't going so well, lots of arguments and I felt like I was always standing alone (He worked and then went to his parents). Now I realize he has changed and the feelings for him are coming back..
I notice it's super cozy and really fun when he's with us.. And I forget everything we broke up for..
He shows that he wants to go for us as a family and wants to raise this little one as his own child if we get back together.. But I'm afraid everything will go like it did before
I'm really still crazy about Yusüf but still..
Love, Rosanna
I'm in a dilemma... I'm expecting my third baby, but I've broken up with his father... (too much info). Now, my ex, the father of my two daughters, comes by regularly (4/5 times a week) to help me where I need help.. It's all very nice and kind, but I notice I'm getting feelings for him again..
My ex and I broke up back then because things weren't going so well, lots of arguments and I felt like I was always standing alone (He worked and then went to his parents). Now I realize he has changed and the feelings for him are coming back..
I notice it's super cozy and really fun when he's with us.. And I forget everything we broke up for..
He shows that he wants to go for us as a family and wants to raise this little one as his own child if we get back together.. But I'm afraid everything will go like it did before
I'm really still crazy about Yusüf but still.. Love, Rosanna
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Falca #2
It's tough, it can go either way. I'd be careful with it, especially because of your kids. Take your time, maybe observe it for a year first without moving back in together permanently right away. It's good for your kids that dad is around more often and that mom has a nice time with dad. But that makes it even more painful and confusing for your kids if it goes wrong due to hasty decisions. I hope and wish you both that everything works out and you become happy again. -
MamaVanJordanEnMacy started this #3
Thank you for your message. It’s indeed very confusing for the kids if dad comes by 4-5 times a week at first and then stops altogether. Today, my ex/partner and I went to the playground and then had a meal to discuss everything. We’ve decided we want to be in a relationship again, but take it easy during the first year. We’ve planned to go on holiday with the kids in July (as a family) to Turkey
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